When I had my first heartache..
By myjesza
@myjesza (5)
Philippines
January 6, 2012 10:17am CST
I just cried the whole night. I believe all of us are already familiar with kind of scenarios of course, we have been in love the whole time at the same time we have been also hurt by that someone. It's a wonderful feeling yet so painful when we lose it. We just have to accept the fact that we are not meant to be happy with that someone. We only borrow the happiness that we felt and then after that it will simply blown away.
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@cnDaos (8)
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16 Apr 12
Realizing that the guy in your life isn't your happily ever after really does hurt a lot. But after the tears have stopped flowing and when you learn to go on without him, after we get over the bad ending and see the wonderful things we got from the relationship, we could say it was worth it. I believe that sometimes the best love stories we experience in our lives are usually the ones that does not have a happy ending. It's usually the ones that would make us grow wiser and stronger in love.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
My longest and most serious relationship lasted 4 years. We broke up a month before we turn 5 years and it's on the first week of January 2010. Yes, it's really difficult to move on but when you think about it, it's like wasting something precious when you dwell into that pain for a long time. I'm not saying to forget easily but at least move on.
Self-appreciation helps a lot in moving on. This is what I learned when I was trying to go through the most painful part of our break up. I kept telling myself that it's not the right time and I'm worth a lot more than this pain. Eventually I did moved on but it took me around a year to do so. Of course, I had my friends who are always with me and supported me all throughout the bad times.
It's been 2 years and I'm still single. Yeah, I'm still looking for the person whom I would love more than my ex. I so hope to find him soon but I'm not saying I'm enjoying my life now :) I just miss being in a relationship.
@jaihobalodiji1 (949)
• India
6 Jan 12
"it's a wonderfull feeling yet so painful when you loose it" superb line myjesza.
. yes, when we love someone we love them like love song but at the same times fear of loosing close one always feels like heart breaking situation. i wish no one in their life go through thats situation.
. yes, when we love someone we love them like love song but at the same times fear of loosing close one always feels like heart breaking situation. i wish no one in their life go through thats situation. @iamroms (78)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
I had been in a relationship that lasted 2 years and a half. It was my first relationship and currently still my last one as of now. We were so happy but happiness ended when we broke up. It was 3 years go when we broke up and now we are close friends again. Life is that. It would not always be a smooth road for all of us. It will have rocky road and left turns but still, it will be okay sooner or later. :) I hope you'll find the right one that is just so right for you and you'll be happily inlove for the rest of your lives. :)
