Love -Timepass?????

Love? That is not love. That is casual friendship. It is a good thing to change partners at college and experience lots of different charecters. Just try to remain friends with them all. You are right - love is pure and to be cherished. But save it for special people and there will be several special people in your life, I'm sure. But I hope there will be lots more good friends. Enjoy your college experience. You will keep your memories of it for life.

I am a student in the university,in fact I don't konw what love exact is .But I can't agree more with you.

A very hot topic. You see more than 30 people have posted response. This is a live topic in all ages. Much depends on the culture followed. children who are taught good things rightly by parents normally may not change lovers like what you said. Many time due to infatuation love starts early with a person and afterwards it changes. In our days it was considered a taboo to talk to stranger boy/girl. A lot of thinking and courage has to be developed to indulge in first talk. Nowadays on account of coeducation in schools and also culture change mainly due to media - tv - radio -- people do not hesitate making friendships quickly and that results in changes. In fact many marriages done after much thinking, planning also fail because of this nature of individuals.

hai daffodils.its not love..its just a an attraction. like honeybees..they will fly from one flower to another.they all need is just the honey. its not love... love is not for something. dont say..all this are love. what you see is not love.they just use to call it love. love is pure. realy pure.sometimes..love happen at first sight.but sometimes..after a long time. but any way..it wont go as simple. love is a feeling. its not just an attraction.

Most of them which include my friends see the love as a simple relation. They just see it as time pass. They consider it as glass bangles. If they are broken they opt for new ones. I wounder what is the need of such relations ? Do you keep such relations ?Do you have such friends ?

In my religion love is sacred...I do not know what has gone into the heads of today's youth...its taboo...it should not be discussed in public

It sounds like you have some very good ideas about love. Many young people at college have never been away from their families before. This may cause them stress and anxiety. Being with someone intimately may give them a short amount of companionship and closeness with someone since they may miss their families. And as far as cheating on their lovers I think that alot of people today are selfish and self serving so they do whatever makes them feel good at the time. It is sad and will cause them alot of problems in the future.

Well i have always believed that love is pure and true love is hard to find.You are right about the today's scenario though people have different ideologies nowadays Love is not as it was before. Some of them, no many of them who claim that they are love or they have found the one, they actually don't know themselves that what they are in.They call it love which could be only crush or an infatuation. Love is not a big word anymore.It has lost its meaning. To love and to be loved is the best thing ever. Lucky are those who have found it.

I believe that we do have to take some time to date a few different people before we are really ready to settle down in our lives. In fact, I dated a total of five different people between the time that I was 19 years old until I was 21 years old when I met the man that is now my husband. However, I never did cheat on any of them, I just had to explore the world and different men until I really knew what I wanted in a man.

Thats definitely not Love. That's what I call as fantasy or crush or whatever that happens to people when they are in college. Most people in college tries to hang out with beautiful counterparts, they love gossips. They want the entire college to look to him as a hero as he is having a gal friend and all that. In my opinion as long as you cant think as a matured person you can't clearly say what love is. Love is not just hanging out with your opposite gender, its something else and you will know about it only after you start thinking straight and that happens only when you attain some age. Of course its purely my opinion and every one is entitled to his/her own opinion. I strongly say that more than 90% loves that start at college life will not sustain for a long time and they end up breaking for small reasons.

For me, since I am a hopeless romantic, I prefer good old pure love than those wavering time passes. That's why until now I don't have a boyfriend because I am choosy. Haha. Kidding. Seriously, I don't have a boyfriend because I am waiting for the RIGHT one(the one that I love and loves me back)and not just anybody who likes me.

Yeah, I also experience about this kind of love, love at the moment....That's terrible thing, just hang out, shopping and make love....then leave without trace. I was really enjoying, But now, I just realize...why I'm so rude and .....

hello dassodils! Yes..I've encountered that kind of couples during my college years also. You are right that love is pure but in their case, I think its not love. It's just a mutual friendship. They don't take each others seriously but they enjoy each others company. They are used to that kind of relationship and I think it doesn't matter to them. They just build a friendship but not love totally.

when the change their "love" partter, they dont love each other actually. but just having passion. when people have true love, they wil never change partner, especilaly after getting marriage. i hope i have true love. a good man will never turn to other women

Hi dassodils: I know exactly what you mean. I have known some people that act this way. For me they must be immature and they don't really know what love is when they have a relationship and then another one and another one and the problem is that they generally end up being hurt or hurting too many people on their way when they do this just for "having fun and experiment" ALVARO

I don't engage in such practices. People who do don't know what love is. Love isn't easy. Some people like to reassure themselves they can find love any time they want. Some just like the benefits of love without all of it's trappings. I've been with the same man since 1980. I couldn't imagine complicating the whole thing by "jumping ship".

The thing is that now new generation is very impatient. They want to attain thing at a faster pace. Love is something very higher institution. and in colleges the thing which they call love may not be the exact love. It may be just some affection of deeper magnitude. Once you graduate people will continue on their own way. I am sure a very few of the couples continue after the college and only those rare case may be a love case.

they are not only changing partners each and every day, they are also commiting serious mistakes. they are making fun of relationship, beintg in a relationship is such a pure feeling and its only felt by true heart, in collages they are doing so beacuse of the lust and desires they have inside them and they just wanted to full fill it. once they got it movin on is their agenda.

that's not love! it is just a form of attraction or mutual understanding with no discipline! A true love although it has gone through many obstacles and tests of time still remain solid and firm!

true love exists, but some people do not care about that, just want to ride with anyone they like and perhaps as many times and nothing more... habemos well as people who also belive in love and move on with our lives no matter what others say or worry about their way of being