are you sure of your boyfriend / girlfriend ?

Yeah.. I have thought of that too with my second boyfriend since my first boyfriend was just for a try. With my second boyfriend, I thought he was the one. Our relationship lasted for almost three years. But it just ended with the thing he has done. Now we're over and I am now in a relationship and I don't think that he's the one I will share with for the rest of my life. He has a complicated life and I'm hurting. I just don't know if he's aware that I'm hurting so badly. I hope you and your girlfriend will be together in good and bad things.. If you really want her to be yours, why not propose a marriage to her? Have a happy life!

I guess a lot of us had thought that our first relationship would be the last. I for one had thought that way back in high school. I've been in a couple of relationships and one thing I noticed is that your love for someone might not really be that deep. I mean, at first we think it is, but then after some time, we realize it isn't after all. But it's nice to hear that you both love each other. All the best wishes for the both of you :)

Well, I'm a person of many doubts and anxieties. Due to my past relationships, I have this assumption that my boy friends will never hold on to me long enough to think that I am the person they would marry. However, my boy friend right now has always told me he thinks I'm the one and if I hadn't went steady with him he could have called me his "never was". He is already thinking about the future, although we were just months in the relationship. He's three years older than me. I'm nearly a graduate from the university and he's a very dedicated employee. He works hard and tells me that he wants to save enough so he can ask my hand in marriage. He told me that I was the only person he was compatible with. He is extremely anti-social and distrustful so I feel as if it was an honor just to get along with him. His taste is very sophisticated and he is highly intellectual. We get along with our humor and our interests. We also think alike most of the time. He's attractive too. Well, it's too early to say whether he's the one, but right now I think he might be the one.

I use to think that my first boyfriend is 'the one'. I was so into him. I don't know if I really did love him though and not just all infatuation and just loving the feeling of being with someone. I am in love with my boyfriend at the moment and he is great.

When I was in your age I was falling in love and I had very strong feelings for my boyfriends, but they did not last for long! Now, I prefer to take things slowly and time shows if you can actually live with the other for the rest of your life. Three years is long enough to learn many things about your partner and I have seen many couples that get married from such a young age. It's because you grow up with the other and you have many common experiences.

my boyfriend and i are together 2 years 9 months. he is very attentive,loving, caring. i met him in college he was a friend of my friend. he did everything possible to converse with me . at first i paid no attention because i did not know the intentions that had me. our friendships was 5 months and one day after my birthday i asked if i wanted to be his girlfriend and i said yes. and during all this time we have been pretty and bad times and there have been many fights and until we have finished but always come back i feel that the fights make the relationship stronger.my boyfriend is the love of my life that we want to lose neck plans for the future i hope to meet them only

How sweet of you to say those words for your current girl, you must be in love and deeply in love with her for wanting to share your life with her. May your love reach the ultimate stage of courtship which is a wedding to celebrate your sweet togetherness.