materialistic type
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
January 7, 2012 4:20pm CST
why is it important for certain women to have a man who drives I don't know which type of care, who has money and a beautiful house but at the same time it doesn't really matter how he treats them. he could be a jerk but at the same time she is happy because in the eyes of the world they seem like the perfect happy couple. why would you lose yourself into this kind of details?
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4 responses
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
Some people do enjoy material things and it is enough for them to be happy in the relationship. I would rather love someone who is true to me even if he does not have the money to buy a house and a car. It's enough the he has a job and he is responsible as an individual. We often envy these people for having so many possessions but is it really enough to make them happy? We will never know what happens behind the closed doors of the room.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
8 Jan 12
money definitely don't bring happiness. some friends of my family have pretty much everything that they want but they have health problems and they get to spend most of those money in hospital.
now back to the topic: I wouldn't like the idea of depending on the person next to me. I like to think that I;m smart enough to get whatever I want and i would hate it if I had to ask my husband for money to go to buy an insignifiant thing for example. as you said there are other things that should matter when choosing who you want to be with
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
7 Jan 12
maybe a deep sense of security, I don't know, to me any relationship with out absolute deep love is not worth taking on, but for some women I guess they just don't have the confidence to be solo, anything is better for them I guess.
@DiabolicFury (3)
• United States
8 Jan 12
That type of woman almost sounds like a golddigger. They are probably afraid to be independent and intend to completely rely on you. I guess the real test is if you're in love with them to the point that their materialistic ways wont bother you.
