Would you like to share your good methods for relationship of husband and wife?

Hi Henryhoney and welcome to my lot. Everyone has quarrels with their spouse. I take it all to God and ask HIM to guide me through each and everyday. I thank God that my husband and I rarely have quarrels. Sounds to me like you don't have a lot in common so if I was you I would sit down with my wife and just plain talk to her ask her if she is happy and see what her problem is with you. Take it to God and ask HIM what you should do.

Hey there henryhoney, Well i haven't been married yet but me and my girlfriend had been together for 5 years and we have struggled, she often would have arguments with me that aren't really reasonable or logical an ive given up a lot, just to pacify her but the thing is we try to communicate after every sequence of fights and never sleep on an argument, most of the time we do resolve the issue but those are after long and ardous senseless fighting. I almost constantly give her way but sometimes. If the the fight is really ridiculous I don't give in. But just be patient try to sit her down aks her if there are problems that she is thinking that you don't know about, maybe she requires some changes in you that are logical or ways of doing things in the house, be more thoughtful and always appreciate her. Hope i helped Henryhoney.

Happy New Year! Here's wishing you a peaceful year ahead. Henryhoney, arguments can be healthy when tackled in the mature and civil way. It's a healthy in a way that you know how your partner see things in her perspective and vice versa. However, what the too of you needs to learn is how to arrive in a term that would make you respect each other's view. Quarreling, however, is a different term. It is at this point when the two of you really have something to point and no one wants to come to terms. This roots up from misunderstandings. Quarrel is sometimes unavoidable, but as much as possible try to understand the root of it. Yes some petty quarrels do lead to serious quarrels that is why it is imperative that issues be resolved immediately. Try not to say hurtful words. Make your wife feel secured by letting her feel the love that you said you have for her.

Happy New Year to you Henryhoney. Sorry to learn of your recent discord with your wife. Disagreements in any relationship are perfectly normal. The key thing is to resolve them and move on. How do we do this? By listening, discussing, weighing up the pros and cons and arriving at an outcome acceptable to both parties. It is good in a way that your differing views are being articulated because at least you know where you are both coming from. It is important that you continue to talk to each other however. In my experience, silences are not to be welcomed.

Hi Henryhoney! of course, I haven't gotten married as I'm only 17.but my mother are always having quarrels with my father for no reason and I'm sick of their quarrels.As I know,why quarrels happen was that my father doesn't keep his word,and my mother is sick of his lies.Though sometimes my father is angry,I know he love mom very much.And my father always says that there is no couples in the world never having quarrels.as far as I'm concerned,you should never lie to your wife and keep your word no matter how small the thing is.