Is it worth getting married these days?
By karin27
@karin27 (141)
South Africa
January 9, 2012 3:50am CST
Is it really worth getting married these days? So many people say dont get married, but yet people are getting married and also a lot of the people get devorced after a year or 2.
6 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
3 Feb 12
If it's worth getting married depends on the person. For me it's no prove of loving someone more. I also don't feel more connection. Still I married recently. Why? Because this is important to my husband and it makes him feel better.
@rubbershot (173)
• Kenya
28 Jan 12
Alot of people nowadays are getting married for the wrong reasons or without knowing their partners well enough. Thats why they divorce after a shortwhile. When you find that person you trully love, the marriage become worthwhile.
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
9 Jan 12
When you are in love with that person You feel sure to make a commitment to share the good and the bad moments in life. That doesnt mean that we are not going to have problems, but, when the problems come we realized that we are tight somehow to that person and we can not run away so easy, so, we think twice before taking a wrong dessition. Thats the idea, but , if one get marry thinking of the amount of divorses nowadays is not worst it to get marry.
@bhanushali1 (42)
• India
9 Jan 12
Marriage creates a significant pause for every couple, It doesn't make you perfect but, when you have that fight, when things are tough, when emotions runs high, when your eyes get turned, you look at the ring and remember all you have gone through and the family you had achieved and it makes you pause and remember, your beautiful wife and all she has sacrifice for you. what greatest thing can you do then publically declared your love and commitment! Anything else is just an excuse.......
@Ktexas (13)
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28 Jan 12
I agree somewhat. It also depends on the relationship before the couple get's married. I have a friend who is 23 and is about to be in her second marriage. She is the type that wants to marry anyone who says they want to marry her. Her first marriage only lasted three months.