Am I just dreaming to be financially Independence?

@angelako (280)
Italy
January 9, 2012 9:59am CST
Since when I'm still a child,I always daydream.We live in a farm and we are very poor,our neighbor is far,what I always did to enjoy myself is closed my eyes and think I have small doll house with complete furniture and everything. I have a small car and I drive.and I enjoy a lot thinking about this.And now that I grown up,i am already in something like the same house i dream,i ride a car,i touch some money but I am not happy,coz you know what? Im just a plain wife.I want something I earn by myself and dont just depend on my husband's earning.My family,i mean my parents still very poor and I want to give them money coming from me,but I can't.And until now I am still dreaming everynight with all this fantacy.
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7 responses
lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
9 Jan 12
I understand how feel, I am independent in every way, I would not be able to cope with out earning my own money, I have worked hard in my time to have complete independence and I love it, I am not rich but I call myself comfortable which suits me fine, by the way i also dreamed of a beautiful dolls house when I was a kid, its a nice dream to have...
angelako
@angelako (280)
• Italy
10 Jan 12
thats what i really want to be,i dont meant to be reach stleast i can manage my own needs,i just hope someday i will be
SydneyHazelton
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
8 May 12
Hi angelako, I totally agree with you that women need to be financially independent and not totally depend on our husbands. We want to help the people closest to us, our parents as they grow old. You are already doing yourself a favour by dreaming up all these things and they have materialised without you realising it. Now there is a need to change your dream to what you want. If you want your own money, then visualise that. If you want to give your own money to your parents, then visualise that too. Once you do this, I think along the way, opportunities will come to you. While your husband is working, what can you do at home that generate some income?
cher913
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
18 Jan 12
it is something that you need to work towards. figure out a way to make money and go for it. mylot is a good way to start.
Dominique
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Jan 12
I can certainly understand how you feel. It is nice to have that independence, and not have to rely on someone else. The best thing is to figure out ways that you can have that independence. I'm sure that there are ways and possibilities.
dilrajj57
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
21 Jan 12
hi angelako, discussion by friend showing very good we should not keep us hopeless, we should hope to live good in a good way mean that we should not destroyed others live for our good live, and that enough that we can spend our satisfied and good manage which i need. bye.
nfrenciz
@nfrenciz (99)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
hi ate...well don't be sad then, just enjoy the things you have now, being a wife and a mother is the hardest and the most challenging job a woman ever have. Even though you never reach your dream yet, don't worry as long as we are still alive and kicking, we really can't do nothing but to go there, especially if you make it as your ambition and goal. And God will provide all our needs, if we only will ask him. God bless..
indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
11 Jan 12
I also felt the same way as you. I also want to be independent, and not rely on my husband's income. I also want to help my parents. I also want to buy something, with my own money. Depending with my husband, making me, not free to use the money. As a housewife, I can not work. Busyness as a housewife, makes me no choice. Like you, help my parents, just a dream, the impossible can be realized.