How to Find Happiness?
By srjac0902
@srjac0902 (1169)
Italy
January 10, 2012 12:22pm CST
Sometimes man may identify his happiness in his success in life, marriage, success in getting his children well settled. ofcourse these realities make us happy. But all may not attain success in life. Yet evey man has been created to pursue lasting happiness and reach that inner tranquillity. Many people have gathered big money, fame and reputation but in their heart they are sad and are frustrated.
For most of the people happiness may not come automatically. But every man can strive to attain happiness along with the grace of God.
Man has to to be aware of his both the realities. He must be aware of his gain and loss. he must feel a sense of gratitude for all the positive that he has been enjoying. the act of acknowledging the blessings in life and the act of feeling a strong sense of gratitude, attracts happiness and the continuity of success in life. The man who is grateful establishes a healthy relationship with himself and with all who surround him.
Man must overlook his causes of sadness and cultivate optimism with a firm Hope that his life has been transforming into positive. Every man has been called to hope for a better world and to fulfil his ultimate goal in life and attain the everlasting happiness.
It is of great advantage for a man never to compare his life with others. It is better not to look at others' success but to be content what he has and concentrate on gaining his success. If we compare ourselves with others, we may compete with them and even excel. But often, by comparing, man will end up with jealousy and eventually it will lead him for destruction of the self and the other. To be content with what one has and strive to improve will attract success over his enterprise.
Practicing acts of kindness and compassion will enable a man to establish pleasant and healthy social relationship with his fellow men sharing his life in the family and in the neighborhood. Establishing healthy relationship with others will keep every person merry and joyful
By collaborating and cooperating with others, man will learn to forgive and forget. He will edify others and he will receive so much of sober and pleasant experience. It is beautiful to share our life with others, without causing their destruction but promoting their growth and development. Thus man will learn to concentrate on attaining his Goal in life and will help others to attain their goal in life.
When man strives positively by following the positive values he enriches his life spiritually and begins to taste everlasting happiness from God.
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3 responses
@roadrunner77 (173)
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10 Jan 12
This is a splendid posting. What inspiring and wise words are here! We would all do well to study them and strive to attain the high standard endorsed here.
@Kalebtheman (530)
• India
10 Jan 12
Just see all the poisitiv aspects of anything.. forget about the bad things ..happiness will find a way to you...always be happy..smile:)
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
10 Jan 12
We can find happiness in a lots of ways. The true meaning of happiness can be found in our heart. Happiness is a choice. We can be happy if we seek for it. Let go of the things that can make your life so miserable.