Has someone ever been upsessed with you?
By karin27
@karin27 (141)
South Africa
January 11, 2012 2:05am CST
I know a friend that lately started seeing this guy, they are nothing but friends, but he seems to be upsessing with her, buying her very expensive things, and is looking for attention by telling her lies sothat she can feel sorry for him, He also phones her about 4 times a day but he stays like 10 km from her, which is not far, when she goes to the gym on her off days he gets real upset because he wants to spend time with her, and he gets upset when hanging out with her best friends.
2 responses
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 12
No, I don't have any people obsessed with me so far. I do admire people when I was young but now I strive for my best to success with my own strength and heart. I think it will be very hard when someone so obsessed with me I have no room to breathe and will die very soon. I am a very funny and happy girl to be with.
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
11 Jan 12
Did you mean to use the word OBSESSED rather than upssesed? I assume you did. I have had somebody very obsessed with me, although not in a dangerous way. I found it extremely suffocating, and I would be very wary of anybody who was obsessed with me to the degree that your friend's man seems to be. She could be sacrificing her freedom entirely to him, but has she (before she makes any decision as to whether she stays with him or not) sat him down and talked to him about why he has such a tight rein on her? Some people confuse love with possessiveness and in my own opinion, if he truly loved her, he'd allow her to be herself, be with her friends and to take her exactly how she is without trying to change anything about her.
