i start cooking
By nonik_mildie
@nonik_mildie (139)
January 11, 2012 7:39am CST
well i can't say that i am a good cook, but my cooking is not bad hahaha.... i don't go to work anymore because i have a plan to move in other town to accompany my husband. that's why i have much free time now. i think that i will get crazy if i don't do anything. beside doing house work, cleaning, sweeping and washing i try to cook. i usually help my mother in cooking, but i never cook alone...i mean just me, myself doing all the works in the kitchen. i start it today. i cook everything by myself. and you know what? the taste is great...hahahha. i feel like a real house wife today.i think i have to be able in cooking in order to make my husband happy. that's why i plan to start cooking..do you think that cooking is important for a woman who has married? just share here friends....
9 responses
@nonik_mildie (139)
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11 Jan 12
hi zaahro, i agree that a good wife must serve her husband as best as she could even she has a servant. i'm trying to be that way :P i live in madiun anyway, not far from the place you live;P
@nonik_mildie (139)
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12 Jan 12
i can do it because i always help my mother in the kitchen whenever i have a time. i feel proud if i can make something that can be eaten hahaha...morover the taste is not bad :) just try it. spend your weekend by doing a simple food to make. spaghetti or make a dessert like pudding is the simplest one :P
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
It is said that the way to man's heart is through his stomach. 
So, my friend start cooking delicious meals now. Your delicious meals need not be expensive, but are those that have delicious tastes. And you should cook different meals each time.
But most of all, when you cook you should do it lovingly for you and your husband. That's the secret ingredient my friend. 
So, my friend start cooking delicious meals now. Your delicious meals need not be expensive, but are those that have delicious tastes. And you should cook different meals each time.
But most of all, when you cook you should do it lovingly for you and your husband. That's the secret ingredient my friend.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
yes, my friend i am married already for 21 years. 
Actually, i don't have a special recipe for my husband and daughter. But i already know their taste , their likes and dislikes in food. So, i would cook according to their preference, which is same as mine.
But they would every now and then request for special type of foods they would like to eat. And i would cook them with joy in my heart, that's why it becomes delicious. 
Actually, i don't have a special recipe for my husband and daughter. But i already know their taste , their likes and dislikes in food. So, i would cook according to their preference, which is same as mine.
But they would every now and then request for special type of foods they would like to eat. And i would cook them with joy in my heart, that's why it becomes delicious. 
@nonik_mildie (139)
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12 Jan 12
ahaa.. you're right about your statement. my husband seems excited to eat every time i cook for him. are you married? maybe do you have a special recipe for your lovely husband or family?
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Well, a lot of people still think so but probably for the chauvinist reason that wives should stay and cook. Personally, it's important for both couples if possible to know how to cook for practical reasons. It saves hiring a cook or minimizes eating processed or ready-to-eat meals :)
@nonik_mildie (139)
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13 Jan 12
hi beamer88...you are right. it is healthier to cook our own food. i can choose the healthy and best ingredient for my cook.
@triplejazzm51 (1373)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Hi! yes of course, a woman for me married or not should know how to cook. Sometimes a home cooked food really taste different from those we buy in fast-food restaurants. We can prepare them according to our taste and we can be assured that it is prepared properly. You are lucky because you have time for cooking, you can also experiment on other foods so that there is variety. I am sure your husband would always be excited to go home to have dinner with you. Good Luck!
@nonik_mildie (139)
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11 Jan 12
hi triplejazzm51 :) yes you are right, i can do some experiments with my cook. it's really fun when i can make something delicious.my family eat it out and they are surprised that i can eat. i always cook when my husband at home.he looks satisfied with my cook and that makes me so happy. do you like cooking too?
@triplejazzm51 (1373)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Yes, whenever i have time i experiment on some new recipes my daughter is my taster. I have a collection of recipes and i also watch my brother-in-law cook when he is here for vacation. He is a chef in an international cruise ship. i think the secret of a good cook is to keep cooking and master one recipe before trying out another. I learned that when i don't cook a dish for a long time i tend to forget the ingredients the next time i cook it.
. I have a collection of recipes and i also watch my brother-in-law cook when he is here for vacation. He is a chef in an international cruise ship. i think the secret of a good cook is to keep cooking and master one recipe before trying out another. I learned that when i don't cook a dish for a long time i tend to forget the ingredients the next time i cook it.@nonik_mildie (139)
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12 Jan 12
wow that's incredible that your brother - in law is a chef..... maybe you can give me one of your favorite recipe ...:)
@victorkrish (1614)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 12
Of course, a woman should know cook. In this modern, most of woman dunno to cook. They should try to cook when free time learning from mom as the best cooker in the world.
@nonik_mildie (139)
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12 Jan 12
thank you arjunm.... you are right. we must learn it from now. woman must get used with kitchen works i think :D
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Hi there nonik_mildie,
Nice to know that you are enjoying cooking. I also have nice time cooking alone. It is like an accomplishment for me when people likes the taste of my cooking. I am neither a good or a bad cook. I just can't tell sometimes how my cooking is - whether it is salty or not, especially when the food is still hot. I have to ask someone to taste it for me and tell me whether I need to make some adjustments. BUt I hope so one day I would be really good in cooking. IT's my mom who usually do it so I can't practice my cooking now. I also think that cooking is important for woman to learn.
@nonik_mildie (139)
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11 Jan 12
hi enelym001 thank you for the response. when i still work from morning 'till evening i don't have time to cook. because i'm free so handle the kitchen now. and thankful my mother allow me to do it hahahha... so far my family never complain with the taste of my cooking, oohhh that's really good for me. are you a worker?then just try to do it on weekend.... ^_^
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Hi nonik 
Goodluck on your married life and your new venture,i know you can cook great because you have your inspiration.
Honestly,i won my husbands heart because of my cooking(not that i put anything in the food to make him love me,but i was tempted to) skills. i always cook anything that he loves when he goes to visit me in our dorm when we were still college friends.And now that we are married,i always see to it that i will cook good food whenever he comes home(yearly).
I think its not only women who needs to learn how to cook but men as well so as to appreciate the cooking of their wives and to sometimes help them prepare meal for the family.My husband is a good cook too and i love to see him cooking in that girly apron,makes him more handsome for me 
Goodluck on your married life and your new venture,i know you can cook great because you have your inspiration.
Honestly,i won my husbands heart because of my cooking(not that i put anything in the food to make him love me,but i was tempted to) skills. i always cook anything that he loves when he goes to visit me in our dorm when we were still college friends.And now that we are married,i always see to it that i will cook good food whenever he comes home(yearly).
I think its not only women who needs to learn how to cook but men as well so as to appreciate the cooking of their wives and to sometimes help them prepare meal for the family.My husband is a good cook too and i love to see him cooking in that girly apron,makes him more handsome for me @nonik_mildie (139)
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12 Jan 12
oh my God...what a wonderful marriage life you have! then let's share what kind of food do you like to cook. maybe i can try someday hehehe.... well my husband is very busy. he works from morning until late of night. he sometimes forget to eat and less of vegetable and fiber. he gets fat easily than ever. that's why i force myself to be able in cooking. i want to make a healthy food for my husband...:)
@yancey2012 (10)
• China
11 Jan 12
cooking at first is an intersting thing,but you will find it's really a very hard work when you cook many times.believe me!
@nonik_mildie (139)
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11 Jan 12
hi yancey2012.... i think so. because it's the first time for me so i fell excited with it. if i be real wife and mother later, maybe i will be like my mother...always busy in the morning and doing all house cores until afternoon. well i don't know how it would be...but if it is so i have to do it well ^_^ thank you for the sharing
