Is it right if I like him?

Philippines
January 11, 2012 8:42am CST
There is this someone from the frisbee world that keeps on bothering my thoughts. I only noticed him at first because he was the former boyfriend of my girl crush (my idol in frisbee). They were both good at playing frisbee but they ended up their relationship for 8 months already (i guess). He kept on liking my facebook status but still did not see him in a special way until he liked our TEAM PICTURE (we came from different team) and commented "#02" which is my jersey number. From that on, I started to notice him. Now, i became part of their team or maybe a half-pledged member of their team ever since I filled-in or played as an import player for their team (that was November 2011). From that time, we became close and I think, I LIKE HIM ALREADY. IS IT OKAY TO LIKE HIM EVEN THOUGH HE WAS THE EX-FORMER OF MY IDOL (GIRL-CRUSH)?
4 responses
• United States
11 Jan 12
its ok to like him its not like he is still with the girl and your crushing him they are over so now its your turn to try to have is attention
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
yes, yes. you are right! thank you for your piece of advice! :D
@jeslin (147)
13 Jan 12
aww haha i guess its okay to like him. They already ended their relationship, so there is nothing to worry about. Unless she wants to make a fuss about it. You just have to confirm that he really likes you too, and that he is not just playing with your feelings, then it is fine to go ahead if things are all working out. But again, i advice you to fall too deep in a relationship as you might never know when it will end. I've been hurt a few months ago, so i wouldn't wanna see that happen to you too. =) good luck friend.
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 12
Of course, you have a right to like anyone. Moreover when he is free. o for him... Do you know in Indonesia there is a saying that translates into: before getting a matrimony band, you are free to date anyone...
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Yes, it is okay. They are over now and besides if he is single, there is nothing to worry about. If you like him, don't hesitate to show to him. But remember, get to know him first. Befriend him.