what shall i do when i fall in love with a girl but she donot love me?
By jakeyangchao
@jakeyangchao (124)
China
January 11, 2012 8:55am CST
recently i fell in love with a girl in our company, we are collegues and often encounter each other. she is beautiful and charming, she always give me a sweet smile when she saw me. so i think she like me too, so i two weeks ago i fianaly decided to express my love to her, but she refused my love. she said she have no feeling to me and she only want to be my friend not my lover. i like and i think i love her too, but she donot love me, so what can i do? continue or give up?
6 responses
@Riead68 (51)
• Malaysia
14 Jan 12
Don't give up buddy until you sure that she has another boyfriend. if she has another boyfriend you have to give up because it will break another heart. if she dnt have any other boyfriend you just be a nice friend with her, every time when you meet with her make some funny jokes, keep smiling but don't show too much attraction. if you show too much attraction she will never come to you. its the reality.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
I think you become her friend first before you continue courting her. Being her friend can also help you to know what she like and don't like. When you feel that she starting to like you then start courting again. Most of the time i think girls like to know the guy first before she answer yes.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
11 Jan 12
Well, you can try to charm your way into her heart or just give it the time that it needs. Who knows, maybe she will fall in love with you in time.
Just wait and pray that she does. Like this one friend I have, he expressed his love to his girl thrice, but she said she wasn't ready.
So finally he moved on.
@Kalebtheman (530)
• India
11 Jan 12
I say you should never give up. try to be her bst friend. show your love through your actions. not by words. everythin will be oky..:)
