How many men do not like to be touched when sleeping?

January 12, 2012 3:10am CST
How many men do not like to be touched when sleeping or do not want to touch and cuddle their girl when sleeping? I love being touched an cuddled when sleeping, but my husband hates it! He won't touch me and he doesn't want me to touch him. I think it is unusual for guys to not want to touch or cuddle a girl. I thought guys would naturally desire to touch a woman's body. I love to cuddle and need to at least touch one part of his body and be close to know he's there with me. When he won't, it makes me feel rejected and deprived. It's like he doesn't desire me but he's supposed to because he loves me. Also, he likes to sleep with a pillow and/or blankets between us which I think is really odd! I might as well be sleeping alone in another bed. Am I wrong? I'm curious how many guys don't like to be touched or don't like to touch their girl when sleeping. I would love some responses from guys. Thank you.
1 response
tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Hello, I am not marrid yet and i dont have a husband also but i have a boy friend he keeps informing me he likes to hug me and he likes me to hug him as well. He is sweet maybe that is why he wants some attention when sleeping. Yeah, it really feels so rejected and you really rather to sleep alone. So, if this is happening to you everytime that you want to cuddle him maybe you open it to him and tell him what is wrong to him.
CFstats
@CFstats (82)
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12 Jan 12
Hi Tiina05, Before we got married, he was different. We never slept together until married, but we took short naps and he used to cuddle me and be real passionate. He also "told" me that he likes to cuddle all night! After we married, I was very surprised to hear him say that he was wrong and he made a mistake. He said he's been sleeping alone for most of his life and he's used to it that way. He said he gets hot. I have already spoken to him about this and he tells me that is just the way he is and he can't change it.