You can fight with the world but not by your close persons..

@lovedude (4447)
India
January 13, 2012 1:45am CST
It's always easy to fight or get angry with the person who is stranger to you.. but when it comes to your close ones.. you cannot fight.. it's just like to fight with yourself.. sometimes I get struggles in such situation.. what about you? can you go in deep argue with those who are close to you?
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6 responses
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
I'd pretty much get angry with anyone. I'm not the type who gives a sh*t whether you're in my circle or not. If you did something really wrong, I'll pour it all out on you.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
15 Jan 12
generally I don't do such things.. I keep separate my close ones.. I can't fight with them..
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
You have to learn to get angry at them sometimes. I get angry at my brother for not studying for his exams. It totally helps.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
16 Jan 12
Yes, i agree. It's always easy to make them angry when they are the ones close to us. Once that happens, we would find it hard to fight against them because at the end of it, we are still the ones being hurt by our own actions. Yet if we don't do anything, they would simply take us for granted. Thus whatever we do, fight or don't fight, we would have already lost ourselves to them. Whereas when strangers are concerned, after the fight, we won't see them again.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
18 Jan 12
yeah.. that's what the main issue.. we have to face them again once we get angry.. not because they are living around us but we also have strong feeling for them
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• China
13 Jan 12
In my mind the closer people is to me, the more I can relieve my feelings on them. To strange people I always keep a polite manner no matter what my true feeling is and I almost only dare to express my emotion only to my close relatives or my best friends and only they can overlook my bad temper when I am out of control.
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
It's hard for me to fight or get mad with those people who are close to me. especially with my friends, We had some arguments, but we always settle that in a nice way and not in a bloody or harsh way. We don't want to hurt each others feelings. Yeah it's true, it's easy to get angry with the person who is not really close to you. But it's not really good if you do that.
13 Jan 12
Yes u are right that we can fight with the world but not by our close person because in fighting with the world we are not bother for hurting or wording or blames which are using but with the closer person we have to keep control on our anger and arguments because we fight with our closer person by the upper side of the heart and we are not want to hurt thier heart by our strong words and reactions. A very true statement in Hindi that " Insaan saari duniya se jeet sakta hai par haarta apno se hi hai".
@lovedude (4447)
• India
15 Jan 12
yeah.. it's very true lines. nice to get Indian language reply.. :-)
• India
13 Jan 12
no i can't go in deep argue with those who are closer to me........unless i fight but not intentionally to my close person..... yes but you are right we can fight with strangers whether we are wrong or right...