fear you might get hurt
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
January 13, 2012 4:55pm CST
most of us go trough this...you get to suffer after ending a relationship and this determines you not to thrust other people because you're afraid you might get hurt
it happened to me too. the tipical story: I loved him he didn;t feel the same...we broke up..I was devastated. I couldn't thrust anyone... but later on it turned into this: not being capable of caring for someone which is much worse than suffering.
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5 responses
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
13 Jan 12
Even if I, and I say frankly I've never been involved in romantic relationships (in fact I want to be single forever!), I can understand that it is very painful when two people in love, they leave. But tell me, what do you feel for him now?
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
15 Jan 12
nothing...it's weird how after loving him that much I get to say that he doesn't give me any feeling. I guess I'm sick of suffering. I was talking to a friend and she asked me if I want him back...definitely no. I said that I would only want to get revenge over him. But I realise that I couldn't do that to a person that I loved.so I only want this...not to see him again
@AmourHelen (136)
• United States
14 Jan 12
I think being hurt comes in a relationship.. it's up to the people in the relationship to get past whatever is hurting them and try to fix it.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
13 Jan 12
Trust is one of the things in human nature you can not control, and once you have the trust and it is abused its gone forever, as we have no control over anyone but ourselves trust is something that sometimes can be blind. I know a few people who trust beyong belief but I know things are not the way they think...my trust was taken away from me by a boyfriend and a best friend, I had 100% trust in both.
@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
hello my friend. it is indeed painful when you lose someone you love. worse, the pain is doubled when you lost him or her because of infidelity or betrayal. the effect on you will always be fear and rejection. it will always be difficult to move on because you will have to protect yourself from being hurt again.
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
When you are in a relationship, there is always the risk of getting hurt. However, we cannot control ourselves from falling in love. Not all relationships end up in bad situation, some have also succeeded in spite of all the trials along the way. Relationships also need hard work and a lot of efforts not only in giving trust but in understanding that your partner is a different person from you. Nobody wants to get hurt because this is a most frustrating moment for us but as they say, it is better to have love and be hurt than never to have loved at all.
