Are you happy with your life???

India
January 13, 2012 10:18pm CST
i had a love failure recently. the girl i loved ditched me for a rich and popular guy. seeing her with him, i almost feel jealous. i almost wished i was hat guy rich and popular guy. i felt like i wanted to be someone whom everyone will notice. like i wanted to have been born in a very rich family. but soon i slapped myself and told "dude, your unique in your own way!!! and your way cooler than any rich guy" (which am not) have you guys ever had such a bad experience ?? when you wish to walk in someone else's clothes??
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@megamatt (14291)
• United States
16 Jan 12
My life is what it is right about now. I think that I am going to feel rather happy about it to say the very least. There is always going to be some room for improvement I would think. Life would not really be worth living if there was not any room for improvement I would think. There are just going to be a lot of times where life is going to be great. And yet, its my life, I would not feel like living the life of any other people. Plus I think that they are going to have their own problems. My problems, my faults, are my problems and my faults, and I would not really have it any different. I have had my share of bad experiences and there are just going to be a lot of times where things are going to be tough, but that just is going to allow me to grow as a person.
• India
16 Jan 12
this incident strengthed me as a person. i can handle things more freely now. i can do anythin.all i need to be is ME. being me
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
15 Jan 12
Hello, Yes, atleast you realize that because it is true we dont have to wish whAt we have now. I know how it feels when you are jealous to somebody especially if it really affects you. But we have to realize that even how hard we fake ourself we still end up being who we are. So, we dont have to comPare ourself and wish to be somebOdy. You just have to accept who you are because in this way someone will also love you. In short your girlfriend does not really love you.
• India
16 Jan 12
yeah. she doesn love me for me for what i am. but am sad. im searching for a gal who would love me what im , bad or good..:)
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
5 Mar 12
Personally from time to time, I think we all have days and experiences like this. Whether it be in Relationships, a job, just life in general. I think for the most part is people do need to realize how important they are, and that even all the riches in the world would never make them Happy. You need to be in charge of your own destiny and make it what you feel is the best and Be happy with no matter what life brings you, while continuing to change things for the better.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
15 Jan 12
To experience heartbreaks is normal. But you should not stop there. Start to look for another girl, after all she is not the only girl on earth. Even if it hurts because of the fact that you love her that much, but things happen for a reason. Perhaps you are really not destined with each other. Its but normal also to think of being someone else. Its part of dreaming. Because of that, we should strive more to become the person we want to be. Opportunities are there, even if we are not born rich but were given the chance to become one, lets just work hard, strive more and be positive in life. The secret of happiness after all is not really to become rich but to be contented with what God has given us.
• India
16 Jan 12
Yeah i deserve better. i deserve a gal who loves me truly. am not gonna stop. im special. i wont lose myself. being me is everythin.
@franne32 (694)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
I am quite happy with my life but of course nobody is really that contented with his/her life. I have failed at love years ago and it was devastating since it resulted in a failed marriage. On your part, you're still lucky because you saw through her. If she only loves money, she will never be happy with life. For you, you can strive harder and become someone who can proudly say that you're fine as you are. You don't need to be in someone else's shoes but I do understand that because sometimes we do tend to think about the "what ifs" that would change our lives forever. Just try and be successful on your own terms.
• India
14 Jan 12
yeah, am being me now. i dont want leisure life to become successful. nor do i need them to get a girl friend who would love me for what i am. life can twist and turn in any way. like , she liked me so much and all of a sudden..boom so my suggestion is that take life as it comes with all our heart..because god is with you..:)
@arjunm (439)
• India
14 Jan 12
Life is not a one sided field. it become either pathetic or cheerful. so, don't be get start in sorrowfulness with your life, just enjoy my life in various way and keep it perfectly as much as i can.
• India
14 Jan 12
Mine was a bit pathetic when that happened. yeah am gonna try findin happiness in everything i do. shes a past chapter in my life