Will you post in FaceBook a daily update of a disastrous relationship?

Well, if one considers herself a celebrity or a public figure, no one can stop one from posting on Facebook one's emotion, relationship status and other intimate details of life. However, the poster should be ready for the consequence though as Facebook is a social media accessible to anyone. Personally, I believe Facebook is NOT a proper venue to release one's emotion whatever it is. Yes, one can get sympathy and empathy, but this will make the poster vulnerable at the same time.

Sorry for the word but I find it stupid to post things like that at Facebook. That is a private matter and it should be dealt or settled between him and his husband. Now if she wants some comfort from her trusted friends she should rather talk to them in private rather than post everything on her wall. She should at least give some respect to her husband no matter what and besides that is a private thing and posting it for every friends of her to see and comment will not really help.

Hi there yahnee!!!! Well I guess I wouldn't post my relationship status everyday in facebook.Even if the people that will see it are my friends or close friends I still wont post it there.It's becoz I want my life to be private and I don't want to look like someone who's begging for sympathy and use this tactic in doing so.

Personally I try to keep from posting details or updates about personal relationships on facebook. One reason is because I feel that others will tire quickly of reading such things all the time. Also, often when there are problems in a relationship there is a tendency to react based purely on emotions, though in a few hours people will change how they feel and regret there words. Once you post something it is there for everyone to read whenever they choose. Its best to use restraint in such matters.

I think broadcasting a disastrous relationship in facebook is childish and immature. Face it! It won't solve your relationship problem and most of your friends in facebook, don't really care. I personally just hide posts like that because I don't really care. I might read it out of curiosity but then I hide them later because I don't want to attract negative vibes from such a negative post. If I was on your friend's shoes, I'd rather keep it on my own. I think it's too personal for others to know that you're not in good terms with your husband.

My answer to this would be a BIG No.. My relationship with my girlfriend is a very private thing between us and if there are any ongoing problems and I want to share it with someone, it would be with my closest buddy and in confidentiality.. I wont let my life and our relationship be so public and require advice and sympathy from a host of my friends.. Well agian this is just what I feel but still everyday I see a lot of personal stuff on my wall where people use the social media to get more moral support in their tough times.. So each one to their own but such things are not for me..

I won't do that. I don't want lots of people knowing everything that is happening in my life. I don't even share my problems with all of my friends, I just choose a few closest to mine to have someone listening to me. I don't need attention and sympathy if ever my relationship is disastrous.

thats facebook sometimes many people forgot that their status when they tell about their husband or their wife, or their lover is their secret sometimes iam dizzy, why many people always update their status with a sad information about their life and love story.. i know that we need a friends for encouraging us..but i think facebook had menu message options so our problems is not becoming the world topic because of facebook..

Such private stuff - nope - I don't need to air my business like that on Facebook (not that I have that sort of problem - but even if I did, I still wouldn't). I have a friend who's husband is in the military - and he is not home a good part of the year. And when he is home, apparently they do not have a close relationship. We all hear her complaints on Facebook about her husband (and kids) to the point where people just don't comment on it as much (I figure many are just ignoring these complaints now). I think she doesn't have many friends where she currently lives, so she has no one else to turn to - so perhaps Facebook has a been an outlet for her to release her frustrations (which isn't a good thing, I think). I don't like to be negative in that way on Facebook . . . I like to keep it light and not drag people down.

First of all i don't have any FB account, even if i have i won't put personal matters there or in any site lol. Best of luck. Happy posting, cheers. Kalyani

No I don't. I don't want to let other people that I am having a disastrous relationship with a person. I am not that vocal enough to share it to them. Also, I don't want their sympathy. I want to deal and close my problem only privately.

that's an interesting question. i would like to imagine that i wouldn't, and that if i were at a disastrous stage in my relationship with a partner that i would have the emotional strength to sort it out, without resorting to posting the details on facebook. but then perhaps the fact that she has a disastrous relationship is an indication that there are emotional problems within the relationship, and therefore just sorting it out privately is too difficult. the rights and wrongs of it depends on how closely what she says resembles the truth. if he is being abusive towards her, then publicising that information via facebook would probably be a way of seeking support, and better than keeping it secret. but then again she might be painting him as more of a villain than he really is, in which case its a bad thing to do, but the truth could well be somewhere between those polar extremes. so i wouldn't like to judge whether its right or wrong unless i knew them really well, and could sort out the truth from the propaganda. but i can't say for sure there an no circumstances under which i would do it, though i would like to think i wouldn't.

I have been through a relationship disaster a few years back and chose not to air any of it on facebook. My close friend and family knew what was happening, and I felt like airing my problems was just food for gossip. I do not put important personal information on my status, however, I may put 'having a hard day' or 'going through stuff' but that is as personal as it gets. Everyone is different and I've gotten a lot of information on a lot of people through their statuses, I'm not sure its wisdom to do this, but its always up to the individual user.

i dont think so that it is a good idea.. i will never ever do that.. To me my relationships are extremely personal affair and i will not make it a public issue on some socialising site.If someone is having issues with his/ her partner its better to solve it by talking, or help of rally close relatives or friends rather than posting it on a socialising site wherein anyone can comment on your matter..and these postings can sometimes make you a topic of gossip & even worsen the situation.

I was the same way. Each day I wrote and since nothing good was going on I wrote about what was happening. I hate when people hide things they have a terrible marriage and pretend they have a great relationship then they get a divorce and your shocked and they say how all they did was fight. Its like why pretend your life was perfect when it wasent that just irritates me. I dont think people write this stuff to get attention maybe they just need to vent and want their friends to know how they are doing since they care about how their friends are doing as well.

I understand releasing pent up emotions, but I don't think facebook is the way to go. I think it's too public. You'd leave yourself much for negativity. That would be criticisms or hurdles that you might have difficulty going over when it's time to focus on career or start a relationship. I don't know why some people think this is OK though.

I visit Facebook about 15 days intervals and or more. When i have much time to spend and do nothing i used to waste time on facebook by playing useless games. I tried of them now and didn't visit Facebook unless i want to promote my blog. There are many of my friends who go just and login there and do nothing but wate and make funs by uselsees update. There is no way of puting relationship a serious privacy conern on facebook. It would not only harm my and the person pricacy but it will let other jealous person to break them up. So never

I will never do anythin like that. people will think am a total loser. i dont care about comments or likes. its all bout social intraction.

That just waste of time.make you fill you are desperate for attention

My personal relationship with my husband is just that, personal. I do not share what goes on behind closed doors with others. If I need to vent about something, then I talk to a friend or my mom. I do not in any way post anything like that on my facebook. But everyone has a way of doing things differently. What works for one person, may not work for another.