A desperate man calls less than a man in a relationship !!!
By ronnyb
@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
January 14, 2012 2:32pm CST
As many of you might know by now, I have a lot of conversation with my female friends and from this I usually gain a lot of insight .Well I happened to be talking to one such friend one night when she hit me with another of her usually earth shattering theories .
Now this girl is a very attractive accomplished single woman and needless to say she is pursued by men from the entire gamut ,the good bad ,ugly and indifferent.Now one night she said to me that she has found that men who are already in relationships pursue her with unbridled fervor .She say they will call her sometimes five time more than truly single men .
Her justification is that a a man who is in a relationship has nothing to loose so he will call to the point of alienating her because he will still be able to go home to his girlfriend .A single man on the other hand doesn't want to loose his prospective chance with her and in so doing paces himself and call just right amount of times.
Fellow mylotters your views are welcome!!!!
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7 responses
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
20 Feb 12
depends on the person as ricki said
either he is single desperate for relationship
or he is bored with his current relationship and pursuing someone else stimulates his mind
in both cases they are desperate, one for relationship/love whatever they call it while the other one for stimulating experience
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
20 Jan 12
You know, I really do think that your friend might be on to something here. Most of the time when I was a single woman the men that would try the hardest to get something going on with me were the men that were already in a relationship. When it came to men that were not in a relationship, I actually had to put a little bit of effort into getting something started with someone.
But, I wouldn't ever give those men that were already in a relationship the time of day because that is just not the kind of person that I am.
. i have very less friends (female friends are rare) and i call them when i need to talk with them. You may say my average calls in a day is not more than 3 apart from official calls.
have a nice time.
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
15 Jan 12
I know that there are some guys that are in relationships that do this, and I suspect that your friend is right ... at least partially ... about the reason that they feel comfortable enough to do this - they already have a "sure thing" at home, so they are not as afraid of "rejection" or of being alone. I have also known single guys that have done this as well, though, so I think that personality also plays a part in it.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Jan 12
It might be true. I only found out that married men are way bigger hunters as the single one, but this is personal experience and in my country.
Personally I would not call a single man desperate like you do in your title.
Also it's proved single, educated, good looking women stay single for a long time. Men seldom like this type of woman. Plenty of info about the why's you can find on the internet, many ivestigations and books. Perhaps the single man is more realistic and not hunting for something he can't get? Or he has more self esteem?
@Sebastion1234 (293)
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15 Jan 12
that what they always says at the end they will say you have misunderstood
