Does your first love last forever, givin enough time?

Brazil
January 15, 2012 9:40am CST
Here is a discussion about love and what a girl thinks. If a girl falls in love with a boy in an early age, let's say 14 years old, and they commence to be with each other until 20 years old or later, being that he is her first love and they have been together ever since and they love each other very much since the first day, is there any psycological theories that can prove that she will have difficulties loving another man throughout her life, being that almost 7 years of her love life was dedicated to soleley one boy? This idea has sprung into my mind for personal reasons and I am highley curious to know if there is some theory behind what I am trying to get at. It's seems to me to be highley logical since her love life was composed singularley of that boy, all of her experiences in love were with that single boy and everything she knows and feels about love relationships were with that boy, and maybe any future relationships will be compared to that boy. If not, how may she react to a sudden rupture of the relation? How would you feel about that? It is very hard to think about since I have not had only one relationship before but this may be a possible scenario for a girl and it must be very intricate to think about it. I look forward to seeing your responses!
4 responses
16 Jan 12
I don't think so I have a relative his firsst love was at 13 and they married at the aga 29 and they are happy with their marriage untill now
• Brazil
16 Jan 12
It's nice to know that can happen, sometimes true friendships are ruined with such stupid things, I just wish people could be more open minded.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
I think it depend on the character of the girl but most of the time it really happened. I think if a girl will have a break up on her boyfriend for almost 7 years he will still look for the guy that have the same characteristic of his ex boyfriend because she started to like all about her ex and she will keep on looking for the same. This is not happened to all girls but i think most of us.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
Usually when they started loving each other at that very young age. The girl will still be capable of loving another guy if there's a sudden break up with her relationship. It will of course hurt her for some time, she will cry and she might think she will not be able to love again. But in time when her heart is finally healed - and since she's till young and there will be a lot of guys she will meet. She will still be able to love someone else.
@Craydz (65)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
It's possible that the girl can enter another relationship. As we say love works in mysterious ways. And if ever their relationship ends up,well it could be hard for both parties because they spend almost 7 years of their teenage life being together. Well in every beginning there's an end. Time will work out on that matter.