Do you wish your first love as a wife or husband?

First love is really the best love one could every felt. as what i notice now that i'm 30 and married. Love evolve differently as we grow old we became responsible and think of not just what we feel but what we will be our future with the partner we choose. But knowing that you ended up with you first love is one of the sweetest thing one could ever have. Even though i did not ended up with my first love, i'm still happy, contented and lucky with whom i chose to be.

No, i don't believe in that. First love to become final love of my life is not possible. When we first fall in love, we think it's the best because we had not experience what others can be capable of too. Love needs to be faithful but love needs us to be selfish too. Much as we say we should place the interest of theirs before us, but how many of us can actually do that? Sometimes, loving your bf/gf deeply, is still not enough to keep them by our side. What we think is alreayd our best, might not be the best for them. Once we have exhausted our limits, we woukd have exhausted our love, once we lost the ability to shed any more tears, our hearts are also melting via the wrong way too.

No, I don't. I love my husband and he loves me very much. There are lots of things that we've gone through and he is constantly with me and we doesn't argue much. And seeing my highschool love (which I am not really sure if it is really love), I wouldn't think that I would be happy with him. At our age now, he is still playing basketball with friends and I know he is drinking a lot. I think he don't even have a family of his own yet, a sign of being irresponsible. While I am contented and happy with my husband who have no vices and just love to take care of our daughters.

No, I don't really believe that. My boyfriend and his first love are no longer together and he actually can't stand her for many reasons. He had another girlfriend after that and before me and he constantly tells me that the love he has for me is the strongest he's ever experienced and it's a lot different and better than what he had before. But for me on the otherhand, my boyfriend is my first love and the both of us do plan on staying with each other and then one day getting married. I think it all depends on the person you're in love with. I couldn't ever imagine myself with anyone else because my boyfriend is also my best friend and I can tell him anything.

Nope, i don't think so. I remember my first love, we were so deeply inlove. But you know things happen. LOL. We broke up. And now, im married, luckily it's not him. I'm happy with my husband, i love him so much even though he's not the first. Same with him, I'm not her first, but he loves me dearly. And we don't talk about each others past. As long as we love each other, and the past is left behind.

Yes i like my first love to be my husband.Do you know when you are first inlove its like theres nothing else you want in life but him.First love is very different,the feeling is so strong that you cannot almost control,its like your whole worl rotate on that man.you wish to be on that person forever.

Well my husband is my first love, he is also my first boyfriend and I have no regrets at all. I have a great marriage and I consider myself really blessed in this aspect. Nevertheless I know many people who did not marry their first love and yet they are living a great life with their chosen partners. It does not really matter whether the person you marry is your first or your second or third love. What matters is if you truly love the person you married and he to you and you are both truly committed with each other.

Hi there lovedude!! I actually don't know how to answer your question coz I haven't been truly inlove before.Never even been into a relationship once but I'll be answering based on what I think.I think that it is hard to be in many relationships in your life that when you fall inlove for the first time you want it to already last forever.Yes there are many events like this that happened into other peoples lives but it doesn't happen always.I guess this depends on the situation.

No I don't believe it for one worth. My first love was a very selfish disgusting person. I was a complete different person from what I am now. I really hope I never will meet that loser again (he became a loser). It's hard for me to imagine what I ever saw in that guy since I can't stand people without character and own opinion. Also my latests ex I never want back again. It's over more then 6 years. Now suddenly I am interesting to him again (since everybody kicked him out) so once in a while he is sending me an email (like last night: I am drunk I want to say I love you and you are the only person who ever loved me. I hope you find some luck which you probably won't since god stinks. Not really a person you love to be with).

Of course I do think that everyone wished to be married with their first love. Sadly, it doesn't happen for everyone. Sometimes we think our first love will be the one for us til we grow old. But because of some circumstances, we will lose this first love and wonder about who's really gonna be for us. For my mom, her first love is my dad and they were married for a very long time now. My dad said he had previous GF before he and mom got married, but it's nice to know that he fell in love with my mom too.

First lover doesn't always mean first love. My first love was my second boyfriend. The jerk betrayed me. He's not my best love. And I never once wished he would be my husband in the future. So far, my best love is my current boyfriend and we have been together for 4 years now. I'm quite content with the way we are now. Oddly, I don't feel like marrying him either. Because I know we are both not ready for marriage.

Yes, I think everyone wishes that their first love be their last love but that isn't the case all the time. There are many first loves that don't flourish. So, first love doesn't really matter, what matters most is the last love. ;)