why do we need to be hurt??

I think some people feel less misery if they make others feel more miserable. It's exactly the reason why people love to gossip and love to watch soaps. It is also exactly why people say or tell about others who's life or situation is even worse as theirs it. Somehow it seems to cheer up a bit or they don't feel such a big loser at all. If people can hurt you has to do with your own feelings. I think if you have enough self esteem, if you know yourself you don't need others to feel better, to cheer you up and you also are not that easy to hurt. Which is a good thing. Stay away from people who can only give you negative energy. You don't need anyone to make you feel miserable. You are able to do so yourself quite well.

I guess it is just a part of living, when we fall in love emtions are involved but we all keep growing and sometimes we change so sometimes someone gets hurt, the only way we can avoid being hurt is not to get involved at all and that is not living, the old saying "it is better to love and lose than never to have loved at all "

Pain is part of loving. So if you love someone expect to get hurt. Fighting with each other can strengthen and spice up the relationship. You will get hurt, cry, hate. And it's all part of it. You actually need to be hurt in order to find someone worthy for you. You might not have seen the person who is really for you. But as soon as you met that person I am sure the person will give you happiness.

Yes, I feel your pain. I have been hurt from love many times in my life. I have almost gave up on it now. I think the reason is we have good and evil in this world. The people that stomp on your heart are evil, and they will get theirs someday too. Everybody plays the fool in the love game.

nobody intends to hurt the one they love the most, but sometimes it's unavoidable, when you expect too much and he can't give it to you such as his understanding, love and respect, you are definitely expecting all of those from him but he can't give it to you that is why you are hurt.

people need to learn from their past...we learn from experiences yes we feel hurt but from that hurt we learn all of the rights things to think about when we learn to love again and with that. we feel stronger and happier from those experiences. that's how our life goes around we feel love and we get hurt and we also fall but from the fall we get up and love another person again...^_^