Love that is tested is Love that is strong.
By deodavid
@deodavid (4150)
Philippines
January 16, 2012 12:24am CST
I have always why are all the things that are hard, people go through. I thought if things were meant to be easy why isn't it. Well I came to a conclusion. Life will always be filled with challenges and we only become stronger once we have survived these challenges and it is the same rule in a relationship every time a couple is tested (problems,conflicts, decisions, etc.) they are given a chance to prove that there love for each other is meant to be and that they will do everything unconsciously to protect it by compensating to each others needs and wants. Love is really strong if it has been tested and the people in it have survived and loved each other more.
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6 responses
@Lannielui (83)
• United States
18 Jan 12
Hope you're not tired of hearing you're right, but you are. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. I've been in a long distance relationship for nearly 11 months. My boyfriend lives in Indonesia and we've been tested through many things. We've had to rely a lot on communication and are doing quite well despite race, age, and cultural differences. We have faced major obstacles and overcome them. The biggest one we now face is immigration laws which may keep us from building the life together that we want.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Hi lannielui,
Hey there lover, hey lannie, well i guess i can only cheer for the both of you and I hope that it works out fine. Your lovestory is one for the books. A long distance relationship and with all the hassles, I definitely think that when this is all over your love will be as strong as steel. Hope everything workout well for the both of you. Soldier on!!!
@Lannielui (83)
• United States
23 Jan 12
Thank you for the pep talk, encouragement, and support. I'm hopeful that it will all work out.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
24 Jan 12
We will become stronger, have more courage and self esteem if we survive this in a good way.
Let's hope tested love is stronger, since most people separate if the bad times start.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
16 Jan 12
yes you are right again, all relationships have ups and downs and trials but I think these are the things that make us appreciate the good times and each other...
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Hi lilaclady,
Am sorry my response for this was way too long but i hope that you still get the chance to read this. Yes love that is under pressure and prevails through all of it is strong and it get stronger until this conflicts are no longer of worry to the people in love in the future.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
once a relationship has gone through difficult stages i.e. conflicts, arguments, etc. and survive, the bondage seems to tightened to be more firm and stronger thus creating a wholeness of two parts as only ONE... when that is achieved, i think nothing can break it apart..
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
16 Jan 12
Well You are right , If it is not tested then what is love , One who stand in your bad time with you will always be there for you in your good times,and whos does not care about you in bad times he/she does not love you so be aware of such people
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Hey there jagjit273,
I guess you can call them fair weather lover if they leave when your down and out, i have seen lot's of these and it ends pretty badly but for those who have struggled and made sure that there love was strong I saw them succeed in there married lives and just laughs at problems that come there way.
