multiple relationships...at the same time

Romania
January 17, 2012 4:30pm CST
did you ever date more than one person at the same time? how did that end? could you find a reasonable explanation for what you did...was it for fun or stuff like that?
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8 responses
• Japan
18 Jan 12
Gish having one serious relationship is good and complicated enough, but it depends to a person if she/he wanna give a try having multiple relationship it would depends if he/she can handle things up so it's all up to a person if they are having fun or looking for something more.
@seemared (771)
18 Jan 12
I have an open relationship but I never went out with guys in turns on a single day..
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
17 Jan 12
Oh no, I think having one relationship is complicated enough, too much stress involved there I am afraid.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
18 Jan 12
I agree with you...one at a time is enough.
@magic700 (100)
• Canada
18 Jan 12
I've never dated more than one person in my life, actually, I've only dated one person in my whole life. But my now ex girlfriend was dating both me and this one girl. It didn't end too well. I constantly felt insecure, and threatened by her girlfriend. One day I tried to fix the problem, tried to make myself no longer feel threatened by her... then a few days later my girlfriend broke up with me because of what I did. I hate myself now. I should have just talked to her, told her that I felt insecure, told her that I wasn't really okay with being in an open relationship. She probably would have dumped me sooner, but at least then it would be because of who I am, and not because of some stupid mistake I made that I'll now regret for the rest of my life.
@seemared (771)
18 Jan 12
I haven't dated more than one guy at a time but some times as a group..it's called group date, like a friends hang out or some thing.. It was fun for me..
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
I did date more than one person before. But now, i don't because i'm happily married. I don't find some reasonable explanation for that i did. Because i was young before, and so immature. It was not really fun because you always make sure that the other one will not see you dating someone else. LOL
@sethalex (153)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Yes, I've tried doing that. It's exciting and at the same time, you must be careful because you might be seen by someone who know you and worst if that someone is a friend of you girlfriend. I choose on doing that when I will be miles apart of my girlfriend but still I would be very careful. You make sure also that the one you're dating has an edge with your current one. This is just in case you will be caught. Then you will have the option to go to the current one that you are dating or explain to your woman if possible.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
18 Jan 12
I have only had one person at a time. I don't feel like you can give it your all if you are spreading it too thin. I don't think its fair either to the other people involved unless they just want to be friends.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Jan 12
No I have never dated more then one person at one time. I could never be with two people at onces.