What things discourage you in my lot?
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
Philippines
11 responses
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
18 Jan 12
I feel discouraged when I have comment back for the response. I had tried to make my every post at it's best to have more responses but I don't receive them. I wounder why people are not responding to the discussions. I am really sad about it
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Why?maybe because it is enough for them in one response and then post other discussions..You know,people are different and the mood always change!
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@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
18 Jan 12
But I don't do so because I know this will make others to get hurted. Will you do so ?
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@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
19 Jan 12
I feel to cry to those who doesn't respond back
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@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
The thing that annoys me in my lot are the people who post discussions and never even bother looking it again and even replying.. As for me, I learn from the member's ideas.. so i guess sometimes the respond of the person who wrote the discussion is also important.. other than that.. I guess none so far.. Thanks
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
Okay, i felt also same sometimes,because you expected that will response you back,but not..
I also learn from that,that not all members are going to go back,maybe just to encourage them.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
I am always discouraged by sarcastic comments. I haven't experienced receiving one yet, but I have seen and read some. One time, two members here insulted other member by telling her that her grammar is terrible. I reported it, and within 24 hours, the posts were deleted.
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@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
18 Jan 12
The whole discussion deleted or just the response in question? It is unfair for good contributors to suffer because of just one bad apple. I wish there will be a system that those rude repeated commenters be suspended for a few days after a warning has been issued as well as their response deleted. I feel it will improve things.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Hello, jkct02! The comments alone were deleted. Honestly, I can no longer remember their usernames. I don't care if they can see and read this post. I was really hurt by their comments. They were very much aware that this member is not an English native speaker. They shouldn't expect too much from her. Aside from this, I had the courage to report them for it is clearly stated in myLot guidelines that we are not allowed to post discussions, responses, or comments criticizing members for bad or broken English. In addition, it's emphasized that everyone is welcome in myLot regardless of his English proficiency.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Agree, i don't like those so called i am better of English ,and give bad comments to the person who does not well i English..
Should be reported that kind of person in my lot because every one is welcome here and not judge wrongly to the person who try to improve her/his English..It also discourage me too and felt that..I think we if we tell to the person to speak our tongue,can he/she speak it well? i think not!!more terrible to her/him to speak it because know nothing about it!
So it is better not to discourage the person or judge right too quickly!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
19 Jan 12
"share just wanted to know it and i'll response you about mine too.." - befrindwithme
Example this discussion. Getting back to discussions. I might like to see how my response is received and read a comment or two but it does not always happen this way for many reasons. (no blame attached) Lack of discussion in discussions discourages more of it.
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@BlackAmaranth (275)
• Romania
18 Jan 12
WOW
500 posts in one month? you're very active. I have 50 and have about an year.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
Wow,fast ,active you are in here,that is great that you made that a lot but your earning not base o how much you post..
keep up the good work.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
You can increase earning just to participate every day,post quality and do my lot task..
You will earn good and just active here.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jan 12
hi befrindwithme the only thing here that discourages me is when newcomers and some old comers ask questions that are already answered
in the FAQ's and the Guidelines. this seems so simple to me when you join a new site to read the information that the site provides so you know what the hell you are doing.so some maybe have English as a second language so u e the information as a lesson in learning English then. read the information.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
When i was new here, i read the guideline every questions that post in the my lot rules.Although i did not understand all,or keep in my mind ,but least i learn from it.
Some true they ask here to better them understand about what we experience as older members..
yes they should read it....
@vandana7 (100303)
• India
18 Jan 12
At times it takes ages to load, at times it duplicates my responses making me seem like the old spoilt records, sometimes my response is eaten away like chocoloate ice creams, and at times it takes a holiday without informing me, me of all the people me..something needs to be done about my ego.
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@xiaohunmeihua (209)
• China
18 Jan 12
Beside few people comment on the discussion I started,the thing discourages me most is my rate in mylot dropped so much because one of my discussion was deleted and for a long time it won't go up again! The feeling is really terrible that others do not approve of my ideas:
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@BlackAmaranth (275)
• Romania
18 Jan 12
Can't find anything discouraging. And i like the inv ink, but run out, so i must use the black one :D
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