My friend caught her husband Sleeping with another women

January 18, 2012 4:31am CST
My friend caught her husband making love with another women.now she has move out from her house her husband is begging her to forgive her and come back.the problem is she now staying in my house and she got no way else to go.the husband keep on calling me and asking me to ask her to come back and she still refused she telling me she going to divorse him.pls help me how to solve this problem
4 responses
@Mashnn (4501)
18 Jan 12
First, I thank you for being there for your friend during this situation. Don't feel burdened by her situation, if you are in a point to continue helping her until when she can be able to move out on her own, I just hope you will. For your friend, I would not suggest her to go back to a cheating husband, when someone start cheating in any relationship, trust is usually lost and it become very hard to live again with such person. I would just let her decide what to do but give her my frank ideas or suggestions about her situation.
18 Jan 12
Yea she realy happy I was around at that time.I am going to tell her the Same thing as I mention earlier in my other reply and I hope all the best for them
@Mashnn (4501)
19 Jan 12
Thanks for BR. Keep up the good work and God will reward you sometimes. It is always good to help those in need.
@Annrose21 (161)
18 Jan 12
Hi Sebastion1234! It was so depressing for your fiend caught in act her husband having an affair with another woman. I know this was so hard for her. And as of what you said in this discussion, you were asking for a solution to their problem. All I can say is that, let them handle the situation, whatever was her or his decision, respect that, after all, it was their own relationship. If they want to end it, then let it be. As long as you were always there to support her in every or whatever decisions they make.
18 Jan 12
Yeah you are right I am going to tell the same thing I am staying out of this but I respect you guys
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
hi, why she didn't sue her husband in the court so that her husband and the other woman will pay for the sin they did.its a really hard feelings we feel when we see our partner sleep to the other bed of woman or to other woman.
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
Your in a difficult situation. I know that this is hard for your friend, she's been hurt. If your friend really want divorce, then ask some legal council about it. They might do something. I think that adultery is really bad, i think i would never forgive my husband if i saw him with someone. I understand what your friend is feeling right now. All you have to do, is ask her if divorce is her final decision.