What do you think about romance books without happy endings?
By geekemgirl
@geekemgirl (270)
United States
January 18, 2012 8:25pm CST
I read a variety of genres and am open to any type of ending. But, when I read a romance novel, I only want a happy ending. I get quite annoyed when there isn't a Happy Ever After (HEA). I think to myself, how dare the book be called a romance if there isn't a happy ending because that's why I read it. I can deal with struggle, strife and angst throughout the book as long as there is a HEA at the end. The HEA is my payoff at the end. What are your thoughts?
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16 responses
@CarlHalling (3617)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 12
I'm perhaps not the best person to comment because I don't read romance novels, and yet I consider myself a very romantic person and love romantic stories. Yet if you look at some of the most famous romantic stories in history; such as Shakespeare's "Romeo and Juliet", possibly the single most beautiful romance ever conceived, "Wuthering Heights"; one of the most romantic of all novels from the Romantic era in the arts; and more recently, Fitzgerald's "The Great Gatsby"...all have unutterably tragic endings. And were I to be given the power to change them, I'd refuse to. They are perfect as they are. There is something incredibly beautiful about a romantic tale with a tragic ending. And yet terribly sad too; as much as I love "Romeo and Juliet" I wouldn't put it past myself to wish for a happy ending next time watch it...and there may never be one. Yet, great romantic tales can have happy endings...as in the case of Thomas Hardy's "Far from the Madding Crowd"...but even at that, as a book, it's drenched with sorrow. It's strange isn't it...I mean...how so much Romantic literature is so suffused through with sadness. Yet...I saw a classic old movie the other day called "Meet John Doe" directed by Frank Capra and featuring beautiful performances by Gary Cooper and Barbara Stanwyck, and when the happy ending came, I was in floods of tears; tears of relief as much as anything else. I just get so involved with emotional stories.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
Also about the story that the author wants to tell and the reader wants to read.
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
23 Jan 12
It's sad when the ending isn't happy, but sometimes I feel it's a little more true to life.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
25 Jan 12
Yeah, I must admit that the happy endings are more removed from reality sometimes unbelievably so.
@leinrix (490)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
in my opinion i dont think romance necessarily means a happy ending or a happily ever after because most of the books made were base on true stories or real events happen in life or in reality before i really hate it when i read a romance books without a happy ending but as times go by i realize not all things have a good ending not all romances have a happy ending and this happy ending happens only in fairytales (that was my thoughts)
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
Not all things or books have a happy ending and I don't mind that. When I want a realistic ending or don't care if there is a happy ending then I read a variety of other genres. But when I want a HEA, I read romance. I don't find a romance book with an unhappy ending very romantic and I definitely want the HEA, fairytale when I read a romance. I agree with yeruchi about it having a sort of Valentines Day feeling.
@Lannielui (83)
• United States
20 Jan 12
I'm with you on this one! I too am an avid reader and can deal with tragic endings, but not in a romance novel. I feel cheated and quite unhappy without the good ending. Life is hard enough and love in real life can be a disaster. I read the romance with the expectation that love will prevail.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
It sounds like you prefer variety. It'd be easier for me if I felt the same then I wouldn't be annoyed when romance books don't end happily.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
i think it is always good to read stuffs and books with happy endings.. but sometimes they are very expected leaving not much room for the imagination or for us to be wrong with our assumptions. i think i have read some books that has some open ended stories and it was okay with me.. the fate of the characters would then rely on my own thinking. :D
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
Good point. The assumption of a happy ending doesn't leave much room for imagination or surprise. But, I think how the writer gets you to the happy ending is where the creativity comes into play.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
Romance Novels without a happy ending in my point of view is sad but realistic. Not every romance ends happily. The person who writes these types of story is simply showing the truest part of life. Changes are evident even for lovers.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
When I read romance, I want the sappy, romantic love story and a HEA. I can deal with all the sadness and realness throughout the story as long as the ending is happy. Unfortunately, not every romance novel ends happy but I only want to read the ones that do. Actually, I think romance novels with sad endings are mislabeled and should be called something other than romance such as drama or true to life. I'm probably way off base here but it's just my thoughts.
@Archaiwy (599)
• China
19 Jan 12
that's why romance is so called.romance always has a good ending.i think there are two reasons.one is that after many troubles,a happy ending is necessary.the other is that the reader want to have the hero and heroine own a happy ending after they suffer a lot although they will not have a happy life.being happy is the expection of the readers to the hero and the heroine.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
I agree completely. I want to see the hero and heroine together in a romance. I read it with that expectation.
@flowerfest08 (1677)
•
19 Jan 12
I love reading books and novels. just like you I want those books with happy ending because it feels good when everything turned out better in the end, like all of the lonely and anger emotions at the start was relieve.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
These are my thoughts too. The happy ending is the payoff for the characters for any loneliness, anger, hurts etc. that they experienced during the book. Why call it a romance if the characters aren't going to end up together?
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
They also leave me frustrated and in a bad mood which is totally opposite from how I'd like to feel after reading a romance.
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
It really doesn't bother me if i read a a romance book without happy endings. After reading it, i'll just say, what the hell just happened? and then i'll laugh. It's not really a romance book anyway, it was tragic. LOL.
@arjunm (439)
• India
19 Jan 12
ALL Romance books has a not happy ending. A Romance is become Powerful when the ending will be in a sad way. but romance is enlarge a reaction to the viewers when it satisfy their desires. so,that is the huge question left to the public's heart that what is the climax should happen till to the last end.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
You're right it really is about what the reader wants. I prefer happy endings. You?
@skits_girl (53)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
Not everyone has a happy ending and as long as the book itself was enjoyable, I think I could overlook the fact that it didn't end happily ever after.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
It wouldn't be enjoyable to me if it has an unhappy ending. That is what I expect from a romance but if I didn't have that expectation or desire than I'd feel as you do.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
I've always been fond of happy endings whatever kind of novel I am reading and even in real life I always want happy endings although of course it can't be possible all the time.
Now with romance books, I avoid those with sad endings like one with terminal illness and would die in the end. I don't like that. I want to see the couple ending up still together despite all the trials, sharing love and building a good family.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
I don't like those either. I also prefer for the couple to end up together. I don't mind if there is struggle and trials throughout the story as long as it is all resolved by the end and the couple is together and happy.
@xiaohunmeihua (209)
• China
19 Jan 12
Most of us like a happy ending and that is human nature. But to be honest I feel the story with a sad or not so good a ending do more impressive sometimes and such a story touch me more. Though I do not like it, I was somehow touched by it. Of course I like books with happy endings as well and that will make me feel better while seeing it:
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
21 Jan 12
Sometimes sad stories touch us more and are more memorable and I like to read such stories only when I'm in the mood for that type of experience and feeling but I look for it in a drama not a romance.