Is there a family member you wish you weernt related to ?

@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
January 19, 2012 10:45am CST
I mean you do everything possible to avoid this person.He/she just seems to rub you the wrong way even though he is family and if you happen to se him/her first ,you would probably duck behind a door or someone or retreat the other way.Maybe this person is a regular "know it all" or is always begging /borrowing money. So who is this black sheep of your family .Who is this major stain against your family name ? Describe in as much detail as you can !
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
24 Jan 12
As far as those people that I'm actually related to with blood, there is no one that I wish that I wasn't related to. However, my sister-in-law is one one of those people that I wish wasn't a part of our family. The reason that I wish she wasn't a part of our family is because of the fact that she is whiny, lazy and really doesn't do a lot for her own children. She is 25 years old and has three daughters. They don't have a place of their own to live and they are always taking advantage of the generosity of my mother.
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
24 Jan 12
Wow I can see how you would wish you didnt have her in your family.She is a leech . I hope your mom doesnt allow her to suck out her lifeforce .Thank you for participating
@ibytes (81)
• Philippines
20 Jan 12
yes. I hate my dad. His not good provider. And he is noger. I really want him out of my relatives. He always nogs my poor mom.
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
20 Jan 12
wow that is profound .Thanks for your response
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
1 Feb 12
Sadly, I have lots of people in my family I wish I weren't related to. Many of the people in my family have taken the wrong path in life and have never got that straigtened out. Therefore, I don't communicate with them unless it is unavoidable.
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
20 Jan 12
I have cousins and removed cousins all around the country who I don't know, and have no desire to know; but of those I do know, I like them just fine. I don't really have any desire to socialize with them, but when we do socialize, there's no problem, except for one who talks too much about herself. Everyone thinks she talks too much. Even so, she is a sweet girl.
• United States
22 Jan 12
Yes, well it is a cousin to me and a couple years back she got married to this guy who is a very good guy, her second marriage, and as her pattern she wasnt married long before she got bored and started to cause problems with my brother. She left her husband and my brother is best friends with the guy she married, under the circumstances of the divorce, we chose her ex and she has been causing problems with the family ever since because we didnt bow down and kiss her feet to make her feel better about the divorce. so yeah, we have one in our family as well. LOL happy mylotting!! :)
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
19 Jan 12
We have two in our family. Its 2 of my husbands sons. One is 42 and he borrows and never pays back. In one day, We get a phone call from him and he says IS DAD THERE? In a really anxious demeanor. So I say yes but he just walked in the door from work. Son says..Well hurry up and get him. Nothing nice to you just red flags go up I need money. My husband and his parents have always fell down to this guy. If they don't give the money they feel horrible afterwards. I don't get it he is 42 never paid a dime back to any of them and they will still bow down. Then he has a son that has felony charges and doing 10 years probation. he calls needing 300.00 the same day the other one got 100.00. So again hubby helps him. I told my husband we are not an ATM machine and that this will stop. I don't feel bad about myself to say no to people like this because their families fall victim to them and feel they have to do it. So I told my husband I would answer the phone and tell them he is working late and don't know when he will be home. Sometime in your life you have to quit helping others and realize you are getting older and will need the money yourself. Especially when no one will replenish the pot after taking from it.
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
19 Jan 12
Wow those arent sons they are leechs .They will suck the life blood from you .You cant feel bad for family member such as those because they will bring you down .They are inconsiderate and should never have access to kind people like your husband and worse they are adults ,they should be on their own living their own lives.I pray your husbadn will finally get some reprieve from them at some point in his life
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
20 Jan 12
hi ronnyb! oh yes, yes and yes! haha..although i can not give details because i have a few relatives lurking here (i might get into trouble if i did), i would at least tell you that this person is a trouble maker, always making up stories to cause trouble for me and a few people he/she actually don't like. you see, the reason why this person dislike me is because i don't want to be his/her puppet. this person never ceases to scheme and manipulate other people for his/her gain and will go to the extent of telling lies to get what he/she wants. haha..i don't even want to tell you the gender because i just don't want to get into trouble. i just want to get out of his/her way so that i would be able to have less stress in life. he/she uses his/her heart problem to get his/her way. most of the time, i pity this person and sometimes, i just ignore it altogether. i just pray that God will give him/her the Grace and wisdom to realize his/her bad ways. take care and blessings to you! lovelots..faith210
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
19 Jan 12
Im almost ashamed to admit it but there is at least one. Its not a very good reason either. She is not attractive, very overweight, not very smart. She also has a motormouth. She doesnt keep very clean either. Once when i still lived in my home state i was out with a guy friend and i ducked out of sight and suggested we go somewhere else. I was embarrised to have my new guy friend met her. But she is a very kind hearted person.