My life sucks

Maybe this will give you some ease of mind: It is more likely they themselves are running into complications and tight scheduling. Since you announced it last minute it left them with little time to prepare and thus may not make it only for that reason. It doesn't mean they hate you, my Birthday was very empty and even though I was a bit sad I was not too upset, my family is busy and my friends live too far away. Don't worry, nobody probably hates you for it, for the people that do come, don't break down and keep it together, alright? Just focus on making it work for whoever arrives, no matter how big (or small) the crowd is. :)

Truly sorry about your party. It a drag that I know. I knew someone who had a party and invited everyone she knew. I was the only one who showed up, with Coke Colas, chips, dips, and a cake for her. Next time don't plan the last minute. Give at least a month in advance. Have people RSVP so they know that you know they be there. Then about three to two weeks before send another invite, with a time, date; a number to call if they have questions. Then three days before, call those who RSVP to conform. Two days before prep. Set up the party, put plates, cups out. One day or the day of get up early enough to cook the longest eatery first, then an about a hour or two before do the quickest. Put every thing out about ten to twenties minutes before. Don't forget to dress for the occasion, and smile. Not everyone hates you. You my dear, Nameless, did not give enough time....

Your life won't be suck as you think, because no one show up at your party. That just some miserable experience, and you will get more people coming to your party next time if you can do more promotion, or spread it out word of mouths with some well - known friends to other people. So, maybe the first experience sucks, but at least you learn a lesson, and you would know what to do next time.

Oh I'm so sorry about this. Maybe next time you should plan the party ahead of time so that your friends can still cancel their other plans. You can't just plan a party without thinking of other peoples itinerary.

So you are party animal ! Well why people not interested to join in your party, ever you skip your friend's party like this? They are really satisfied with your friendship? You are giving your best in friendship. People do generally when they feel their friends are little proudy, arrogant, egoist or might be over attitude. Feel free to talk with them about your party and try to find out reasons, why are not able to come. The more you talk freely and comfortably the more you increase chances people join your next party. Mistakes are human, no worries, try again.

hi, sorry that you couldn't organise it in a better and enjoyable way. But no worries as few of them agreed to reach, though late. Noone is going to hate you for a late invitation and why you think so, we can't invite them as per their timings, it is our call and obviously they can come for the last min. invite or they can refuse. However, I would make the list of 'confirmed' attendees and then only make the food arrangements as I don't believe in wasting food. take care.

Who needs friends who trash your place and upset neighbours? Sounds like gate crashers to me. Well it sounds like it wasn't a complete disaster in the end. Good for you. My brother and I hired a conference room for a business meeting, laid on a stack of food, set up a visual display for our presentation and had 45 people booked to attend. Not one person came! Haha!

First, stop whining, this doesn't help. Then relax and get away your fear. You cannot run away from the house, right? So don't be afraid that your guests will think bad things about you. This could not happens if you don't show your embarrassment. So you can say: "Hello, finally somebody here! Other couldn't make it but I'm glad to see you, let's party!" If my words are too stupid, try to figure out something better :D. And don't give up. My life sucks - throw out this from your mind!

I'm sorry about your party, what you need is patience and keep positive thinking. Sometimes it happen in certain circumstances..... But I think, your problem is misunderstanding about information of the party. Don't blame anyone....yeah, that's really suck !!!

Hi there, One way to know if they are coming is to call or send them a message. Try to convince them whether they're coming or not. If they decide not to come try to still encourage them to come.. I am sure they're your friends so they will understand the last time why you cancelled the party. But this time since you did not advise them of any cancellation pretty sure they are gonna come - just late. I am sure the party is over by now... Let us know what happened.

hi nameless, Just calm down, If you said you informed all your guest that there is some changes on the date, then maybe they're already on their way there. Just wait, there are people who arrives late. Just wait ok. update us soon

Its really frustrating,when you organized some party and no one come.But I think they are just late.Some people is just like that they come so late,or a little late.For sure they will come.Its a free food and why dont they grab it.Well dont worry this party will be find,as long as you know you did well in preparing this you will not blame yourself if they dont come.

Nameless stop saying that you are not good at this and your life sucks and friends do not come you are a bad organizer.....STOP! This way to treat yourself is not fear to you and to the people that: care for you because they showed up to your party, they stayed late because I guess they liked the party and the company.... About the late stay of your friends it is normal, even at my age (soon 50) when we have a party at home I have to make my friends understand that it is 2 o'clock in the morning and I would like to go to sleep! I still have my friends...this is all normal do not make such a big deal out of it blaming yourself for this and for that! Cool down, breath and take advantage of the magic moment being with your friends. OK? have fun!