Do you get suspicious when your partner is really sweet to you?
By courtknee525
@courtknee525 (3742)
United States
January 20, 2012 8:17am CST
It's not that I get suspicious when my boyfriend is like that but I do wonder what brought on the sweetness lol. Lately, my boyfriend has used his pet names for me a lot more than usual and he's been acting super loving. I'm not suspicious that he's done something bad, but I guess I'm just not used to him acting like this all the time. He's usually sweet to me and uses pet names a lot in texts and then sometimes in person. Now, he's using them all the time and constantly talking about how we'll get married one day. I know that sometimes to other people he'll refer to me as his wife. He did this the other night when his jerk of a dad stopped by the other night. My boyfriend was texting me and his dad got annoyed and asked who he was talking to and my boyfriend replied "my wife". I thought it was so sweet he said this...especially since on Christmas his dad asked whats going to happen to us when he leaves for the army and my boyfriend said we're staying together. Well, his dad just said "I wonder how long that'll last" and everyone just stared blankly at him because it was rude and my boyfriends mom and sister both know how much my boyfriend loves me.
I guess lately theme boyfriend has been thinking about how much hes going to miss me when he leaves for the army. I'm definitely not complaining about how sweet he's being though because I love it. I don't get suspicious that he's done something wrong because I know he's not like that. But I realized that it just made me wonder what causes it and then I got to thinking that other people may question their partners too or even get suspicious lol.
So how do you react when your partner gets extra sweet all of a sudden? Suspicious, wondering, or just happy?
7 responses
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
20 Jan 12
I never get suspicious when my partner became so sweet to me suddenly, I'll be suspicious only if he's not being sweet with me since he was already sweet when I met him. I you're partner was a sweet person when you met him then there is nothing to worry about but when your partner wasn't that sweet when you met him and suddenly became sweet and out of nowhere reminiscing all the past about all your relationship then that would be really make you wonder why your partner is starting to be a new person,but still some man/girl are being sweet to their partner specially when they are asking something to buy or liking something but still every individual has different point of view on how the react on their partner sudden changes.
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
20 Jan 12
No, I don't get suspicious either. I'm just curious when all of a sudden he's sweeter than normal. He's usually always sweet and then at times he just gets extra sweeter for some reason. I guess it's just that he's having a good day and happy to see me. I'm definitely not complaining though, I love it when he's so nice all the time and says nice things.
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
21 Jan 12
Oh ok hehe we actually like and love it when our partner is being really sweet to us anyway
@leeannahewitt21 (97)
• United States
24 Jan 12
i knid of agree there but when he cheats on you everyday n brings yoou presents you be woundering the same thing i have been
@soulist (2985)
• United States
20 Jan 12
I dont really get suspicious when he is being very sweet to me. It is something he always does and sure there are times he stops then starts back up again. When he is sweet to me doesn't mean anything bad, to me it means he loves me and wants to show it to me in the things he says and how he acts.
@leeannahewitt21 (97)
• United States
24 Jan 12
i agree with you there i wish i had a guy like yours n if i did i would be happy i 21 yrs old i have been single for a 1 yr n still going
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
20 Jan 12
It's not always about getting suspicious but if something is suddenly different as usual in my husbands behaviour it does make me start thinking (a lot, also if I will start about it or let it be). There are many ways people can do something "wrong", I don't think I will ever say I know my husband because I think it's impossible to know an other person for real. Knowing oneself is already quite of a job and takes for many of us a life time.
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
20 Jan 12
I understand what you mean. It's not really suspicion you get its just a sort of wonder about what brought the behavior on. But maybe they're just in a really good mood that day and are just happy to be able to see you and be with you.
@angelako (280)
• Italy
21 Jan 12
I dont get suspicious when my partner is really sweet to me.He is always sweet since we meet.But in other case if he just become sweet at that time there are some factors we have to consider iether,he just want to change,just loving on that day,or he do something bad and want to make up to you.Thats the time we can be suspicious.But we dont need to give bad meaning to it,because it will just give you headache.Just be thankful his like that.
@kenjizumi (6)
•
21 Jan 12
If you're partner is not usually sweet and suddenly he becomes that, sometimes I think about what's happening, did he do something wrong and his sweetness will suffice the sins he made. I think of that sometimes but I asked him straight out "why are you being so sweet" if I get a wrong answer/ suspicious answer then... baaam!!! My mind will not stop thinking, but at the end of the day.. you still say to yourself.. what the heck he's here and no matter what happens I know he'll still go home to me..
@leeannahewitt21 (97)
• United States
24 Jan 12
Hey there courtknee525 u could always email me at this email address i like to have you as a friend n here is my email address hewittleeanna@gmail.com, i would get suspicious bc i had a guy do that to me for about 4 years we were togther he would bring a present to me everday n then i found out he was cheating on me with my best friend
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
20 Jan 12
I never get suspicious when my partner is sweet because he really is. I would certainly be suspicious if he isn't. His sweetness is what attracted me. My partner can really be sweet that he even texts I love you in the wee hours of the morning or at midnight when I don't expect to receive messages from him. He is always working on the night shift and would waken me up with those sweet messages. We just managed to get over some difficult part of the relationship and he is trying to make up with being extra sweet and romantic. I just hope that the love we have for each other will withstand all the trials in our relationship.
