Brother Compares Me with Some Dirty Girls....

Hi Dassodils, From your words, I can conclude its your younger brother. May be he does not know fully about those girls(bad), by mistake or immature he compare you with those girls. I can understand your feeling, it will hurt you alot when your dear ones (brother) makes you in the same stage with some bad girls. But I am sure he is confused little bit. Don't worry as days pass, he will come to know about those girls and surely he will understand his mistake. As of now, you just cool down and chill out.

Yeah tell him he is jerk and needs to keep his mouth shut or day something bad will happen to him. It's called karma what comes arous goes around and it comes back 3 times worse. You shook also stay away from him and have no contact from such a person that is in your family. If he is going to act that way then de gets ano respect from you as his sister. You should also let people talk to you like that.

Hi.. .I think it is just the sibling jealousy... It happens in every family and has been happening year after year, since the civilaztion came into existence. Don't worry a lot about it... If it hurts you then just ignore him... If you feel that the issue is beyond tolerance and he really means what he says, then talk to your Mom about it.. I don't think, he was serious when he said things.. Take care...

Hi! Maybe your brother is just teasing you. Sibblings are like that. Sometimes they just want to tease you until you feel bad. But it doesn't mean that what they are saying is true. So don't think about it too much. What is important is that you know who you are and that you are not like those bad girls. Cheer up girl!

Being a girl of young age, you have possessiveness of your affection for brother. When the brother tells something you take it seriously. You have in mind that a few girls are not good because they move freely with your brother and other boys. This prompts you to feel so. It may be those girls are also nice girls like Dassodils. It is the perception that matters. If you think they are good they will be good. Just relax and watch things moving. Erase the bad feeling after all it is only your brother who has told so. You are a good girl and concentrate on studies, other entertainment like music, drama, literature.

I wonder when your eyes will be openend. How long you will take this behaviour of your brother. How come or what makes you think he is such a great, holy guy? I think he is one of the biggest abusers on this earth, he loves to kick you down and he doesn't know what love means at all. Also I wonder how your brother can know these bad girls so very well. Does he pay them a visit frequently? To my opinion there are no bad girls, only terrible men who think they can scold on women whenever they like because they feel more superior. Women have the same rights as men. Let your brother stay in the middle ages or the time of the cave men and you start living your own life! Your brother is just trying to break you so he feels better about himself and he can say he has all the power. You don't need to be smart to see this. It's pathetic the way your brother is!

Your brother really knows how to push your buttons. I wouldn't let his words bother you and just know that is what he is trying to do. Don't let him get to you. Don't imagine any of it and don't let it get you down.

Siblings can be so mean, sometimes, I know about it, but, never mind what he says, I am sure that he loves you, deep inside, and, you are who you are, and, must not allow him or any other person to compare you with other people, and, most important at all, is that you do not let this to disturb you, remember that you are unique, and the only responsible for all your desicions.

My guess would be that your brother is really just picking on you. I know that I've experienced the same thing in my life with my brother. For a long time my brother would pick on me about what I was doing with my boyfriend in my bedroom at night (and yes, I just recently learned that he really did hear what he claimed that he was hearing). And then for a while I dated a person that wasn't who I thought they were and after that came to an end, he decided to tell me that I was a lesbian. He only did this because he was my brother and knew that he could pick on my like that.

Hi Dassodils: These arte the type of things brothers do to each other to make you feel upset so don't take him so seriously. Just evaluate your behaviour. Do you think that is truth? If not don't pay attention to him, he compares you to these girls just to make you upset. ALVARO

When people call you names just for the heck of it they're usually not serious about it and you shouldn't let it offend you.Anyways if you think you're not one of those then why feel hurt?

It seams that your brother often destroys your mood. Why you allow him to do so? Why you tolerate such behaviour for so long. This is not first time you are complaining about him here. I think you are in bad mood thanks to him since many weeks.