Introverts have hard life?

I'm in the middle with that. You can have both but if I lean one way it can be an introvert. Depending how you look at this though each quality does not necessarily mean a person is more prone to social ills or has a plus because of that. An introvert for example can be happy doing tasks alone when an extravert would be uncomfortable in need of support or interaction. Generally an extravert is more outgoing than an intravert but both persons can still carry a lot of extra baggage that might inhibit their social skills. This particular characteristic is a more a measure of looking out or looking in, I think, so hard life is for either one or not! - think this is true - any thoughts?

I am an introvert but I don't want to be in your position where you have so much regrets and never get over them. My advice, try doing something creative and something that makes your imagination work. Thinking about my "tralala-land" is way better than thinking about mistakes I've done in the past. Happy MyLotting!

hi sterybiusz I am an introvert but I do not beat myself up anymore with things from the past. I am a diabetic and stress shoots up my blood sugar level . I chose not to stress out over anything, the\past is past so live for today and be happy introvert.

I'm like you, I'm an introvert and I don't like it very much but that's who I am. Most of my friends are extrovert and they know a lot of people and I tend to feel kinda jealous seeing them being to careless and free. But I do feel kinda lucky to have them as friends though. I do tend to over think myself and I get pretty paranoid at what others think about me. Sometimes I regret what I say or do, thinking about all the consequences and it does get me down. It's not a good feeling and I get depressed very easily but I tend to forget though. I try to forget and not let it bother me until something reminds me of it and then I'll be down temporarily again. But don't let those thoughts take you down, just keep moving on.

You can learn to be different, not to care anymore about what happend. I am not very extravert but I know who I am, what I want and dislike. I don't care anymore for what others say. I also don't believe an extravert person is never afraid, never thinks over what is said or done. I think both people have difficulties in life because both are not common. If you are not what others (the sheep) want you to be (an other sheep in the cattle) you have a hard life. A very hard life! It's you who have to deal with it and find a way to survive. So make yourself happy as much as you can. It's good to be you and esp. those who are different make and made the changes (and inventions) in this world.

I am an introvert tho i try not to let it ruin good things that could happen for me. I say try cuz a few friends have walked out of my life because i am a bit socially awkward. It is hard when you got these people who are your friends not being very accepting. Theres that and I have to push thru it with the job hunting ive been doing.

Nope,i do not specifically dig in all the odd stuff i've been through,before heading to bed every night.Its been a while since i've been to bed without thinking about one thing though coz i consider that to be a failure on my part and i'm no where near to giving up until i sort that out!Great day.

I personally find it hard also to forget the pass mistakes , i guess if positive then will take the mistakes as lessons to improve and not the made mistake again,however sometime it not as simple as that as history may repeat itself and same mistake bad experience will occur , and this will really wreck my personal feelings , then i will be extra introvert and anti social.

Introverts are people who are much more concerns with their feelings, they are also the people who love to be alone. Extroverts are people who love to mingle with others, their interest is outward. The other one is an AMBIVERT . An Ambivert is a trait wherein there is a combination of Introvert and Extrovert. Therefore, I am an [b]AMBIVERT [/b . I love to be alone and I am interested with other people.

Hello, there.. Attitude really vary from person to person.. Some may be introvert or extrovert. As I've come to evaluate myself upon reading your post, I realized that I'm more of an extrovert type but there are some instances that I would act as an introvert person. I notice this often when I'm with my "Barkadas" or close friends. Whenever the majority of the group decided to do one thing or go to a specific place, I would definitely think of anything besides it. I get so excited whenever we come up on something. I don't really think of what others might say about me or for the group. What would come up to my mind is just to be happy and enjoy the moment. But most of the times right now since I am far away from them, I feel like I'm an extrovert type of person. I care a lot of what others might think about me. Of what their reactions are if I do something else. Sometimes, I regret what I did and what I did not do at a certain moment. What do you think is the most regretful thing? Doing something because it's what you think is right and you think it would make you happy? or Not doing something because you're bothered by what others might think and say about you even if it's painful to you?

hi:) there are times that I am shy to socialize and there are times that are not, maybe it depends on the crowd. if I'm close with the group that I'm with I get along easily but I can't get along well with people that I hardly know, and like you I also have the tendency of recalling my past failure and dwell about it, but only sometimes not very often. about you're problem just like to relax your mind before you go to sleep, and think that those faults already happened and you can't do anything about that anymore just take it a lesson so you will not do the same mistake again in the future.

I think I'm a extravert, But before, i was really shy and have low self-esteem. I didn't believe in myself before. I always feel down and lonely. But as i engage and learn how to deal with people, i started being sociable. I started being friendly and meeting new people. I told myself that no one and nothing will let me down. About the failures i did before, i've already accepted them. And i will try my best in everything i do. Failures, are just my lessons in life. I hope that you'll be able to cope up with your problems.

I don't think extroverts do not regret things in life. Everybody regrets doing some thing bad. but may be they are more positive and take things easier than introverts. But you really can't generalize such things. Not all extroverts are alike. Nor are introverts. It is a good thing to analyze the day's activities before you go to sleep, but try to forget old things. It is human to err and you are only human. You also have the right to make mistakes. The important thing is to try not to repeat mistakes in life. I also feel terrible when I think about mistakes I made in life. but then I consciously try to think of something else because I know that such thoughts will depress me. And I am more of an introvert than extrovert. You should try something similar.

Yes, being an introvert can be really stressful and which is why I like to think of myself as an extrovert-in-process. Being too self-conscious is a major downer and kinda leads you to draw the short straw of things.

To each according to his own. People like me, who are introverts are happy to be so. We find it difficult to be sociable, it causes stress and more problem when others start interfering with us, tease us, and trouble us. As to extroverts, I am fine with it, as long as the costs of their social life is not passed on to an introvert and as long as they dont tease or ridicule introverts.

Ya i am also Introvert typist. i can't be speak so easily in all speech. although i will forget my past incidents that related failure matters but it take really some long times.