not being able to let go.
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
January 20, 2012 3:13pm CST
sometimes for different reason we aren't capable of ending a relationship aldo we realise that things aren't working anymore. I'll tell you my story: things were getting worse between us but still I couldn't leave him. I couldn't imagine my life without him. I told him that I want us to break0upl just because I wanted to tell me that he loves me and he doesn't want that. and I was in shock to hear that he didn't have any problem with it...and I was still the one asking him to come back
I'm ashamed with what I did because I realise that I didn't have any kind of dignity and I would only humiliate myself in front of him. thank God he ended things because if he didn't I would probably be in a mental hospital
5 responses
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
21 Jan 12
it is really difficult to let go of someone that we truly love. the thoughts of being separated and away from him seem to cloud the rational decision-making process. it is even more difficult if the partner is ready to let go of us. how can that happen? suddenly all the memories will be wiped out. the dream of living with that person will now remain a dream and distant possibility.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
21 Jan 12
it's really hard but at the same time a relationship takes two individuals. you can't be the only one who is struggling to make that relationship work. I realise this things now...but back then I couldn't think like this. I think that in a certain way I was scared of the loneliness and I couldn't see my life without him
@redeinjhel09 (31)
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20 Jan 12
Wow, you seem to be so attached to this guy. But anyway, I supposed you guys have already broken it off permanently. I had the same situation before. And fortunately, I managed to get out from that nightmare. I even cut my wrist, because I was so depressed that time and I feel like, I can't live without her. But now, I'm happy with my girlfriend. Hopefully, she'll be the last.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
21 Jan 12
I didn't get to that...he is part of the past now but he will still have a place in my heart. I loved him no matter what happened between us. BUt I wouldn't want to get back to that. as I said I'm ashamed with certain things that I did because I humiliated myself in front of him and I lost my self-respect
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
21 Jan 12
There is a time for everything.
A time to realize it's over. A time to stop.
These moments are not necessary at the same moment.
For many it's way easier to stay, to find excuses why to try it longer or because it's easier as starting all over again (which can be scary).
@sunirmal70 (82)
• India
21 Jan 12
Friendships or love relations can never breakup, only the emotions of that sometimes feel much and sometimes less. Indeed, human being is naturally live in a wanted or unwanted relationship with someone for lifelong.
@Luciano63 (157)
• France
21 Jan 12
Relationships are very hard and not easy to keep, when there is LOVE it all becomes harder specially when someone starts having doubts. When love is over best thing is to quit, if one of the two trys to resist not to let the other one go and the all relationship becomes a real pain....in this case the egoism has to come out to save ourselves. Take the decision and just go!
