Ooooopss. Im Going Out With A Wrong Person !!!
By cairalyssa
@cairalyssa (1402)
Malaysia
January 22, 2012 6:20am CST
Some people still linger..
Some people just disappear..
or talk it over..
some end it nicely and some end it tragically
What would you do when u find your self in that situation?
6 responses
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
22 Jan 12
Dear friend, I will not criticize you for sure, but you did a discussion of just 5 lines.
However, the reference is clear in the title. I know you're coming out with the wrong person.
But you should be a little more precise in detail, in the sense: who is this person? A friend?, A boyfriend?
However, my advice is this: whoever he is, if you believe this person is not good for you, do not go out with more!
At least, I would do so.
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@cairalyssa (1402)
• Malaysia
22 Jan 12
No im just asking wat would you do if you personally get into that kind of situation. Its hurt when we gotta make tough decision like that right.. especially when the other person already thinks that " You are the One"
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@alberello (4752)
• Italy
22 Jan 12
Well, if you put it that way, I do not know what advice to give you. This is because I never had any romantic relationship, despite I have almost 37 years.
So I do not know what I would do faced with a similar situation. The only thing I can hope for, is not wont be ever!
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@oscarbartoni (2581)
• United States
23 Jan 12
You are young and you think that you made the wrong decision to go out with this person. It is a learning curve in life that tells you that it is time to break off this relationship and find what you enjoy in life. It is tough to say good by but it is better sooner rather than later. It is also usually harder the longer that you wait to break off a relationship. as long as there are no children involved then tell him that he is not the one for you and wish him the best of luck in finding some one that will be better for him. You might even help by introducing him to some one that you think would enjoy being with him and that he might enjoy being with too.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
23 Jan 12
I found myself in the situation where i met a guy...went for coffee with him and he decided we were a thing. Started talking about marriage kids and such. Then seemed to think that i should move to bc with him only having known him less than a month. At that point to told him that things were moving much too fast for me and that we needed to take a big step back to get to know each other. He stopped talking to me.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Jan 12
If you like the guy true
you got to watch his heart
and then you need to watch yours too
you have to be sure
you know what both ways can do
one can make it hard later on
and the other will end what could still be ok
so no one can tell you what to do
but if it is wrong and not rice
and you know it, don't shout
just tell him and be nice
cause for a while you two went out
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@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
for me, it's really hard to say that i'm with the wrong person if i myself never tried to adjust for that person..if everything will really turn bad, and both of us will realize that we're not fit for each other, then i'd rather talk about it nicely so that both would agree and won't end up with regrets..
@sheliaj (39)
• United States
22 Jan 12
this definitely needs more information for this discussion .i personally would not let anything further go on because the longer it goes, the more hurt the other person will feel and could destry a persons life in that manner. this is a cruel thing to do, let them go unless you have no feelings at all.
not speaking directly to you, because i do not know if you are in that situation or not, there is not enough information here to know. just speaking in general.
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