Race, does it mean anything?
By BlaqKwene
@BlaqKwene (45)
United States
January 22, 2012 6:57am CST
Why does the American people put a lot of stock in race or the color of my skin? What difference does it make? If I qualify for a job, I work longer, and harder than my white counterpart, with no extra pay, why is it I haven't had a promotion in twelve years and they started only a few years ago, less education/experience, but now triple my salary? Why drag a person to a house against their will, then prevent them from the opportunities that your families enjoy? It really depresses me, and makes me sad. I do everything I am told to do, but short of begging for an explanation, I don't understand why I am treated in such an undercover way.
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7 responses
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
22 Jan 12
I am American and I don't think about a person's race and I don't know anyone who does. In reading this I am inclined to think it is YOU who thinks about race. You sayyou work longer and harder than your "WHITE counterpart". What do you do for work? I would ask why he is making more. It doesn't sound as if you are in America because here you would get equal pay for equal work and you would not be working all those hours for no pay. Not sure why you are blaming America or white people but it doesn't sound like anything that'd happen in this country.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
22 Jan 12
just looked at your profile and am very surprised to see that you do live in the US. Not sure where you work but if all this is true then that would be your boss who is to blame and it sounds as if you need to look for a new job and possibly report him. Something sounds very wrong in your situation. And trust me not all Americans are like you describe. You are throwing us all into the same cart because of one or a handful of people you've had a bad experience with. There is a Chinese man that comes into my store that is so very rude that I cringe when he walks in. So would I be accurate to say , " Why are the Chinese people so rude?"
@BlaqKwene (45)
• United States
22 Jan 12
Oh, I am most certainly American. I am working on my tree on ancestry.com and can trace my tree back to 1556, here. I state from experience, and yes, I do ask, went to union with proof, but it does nothing. I work harder because in an under over way I understand that if I don't perform the extra duties, I will be punished witha bad yearly review.
I tell you what, since you have no idea what it's like to be black, how about you pose as a bla k person, on line, in some of these social groups, once someone is convinced you are black, you will hear the say thing from others. To your face, of course no one will say a thing, we know the game, but in private, we know we're still thought of as less than most any other race.
Your America is a lot different than the one the majority of the blacks know. We just wanted to be treated the same, judged on our skills, or intelligence, not your perception of us. And why is it, when we say something, that we experience, someone attacks us like we are liars? Step into our shoes, you would complain also, and no, I'm not trying to move to another county (something else people say when we ask for equality!)
@BlaqKwene (45)
• United States
22 Jan 12
I don't mean to upset or anger you, but, I have family members who work in different industries. What do you think we talk about? We learn from each other to bow our heads low, to be very apologetic, and to smile when appropriate. Jobs are hard to find especially now. Even if we are cleaning toilets, how stupid would we look to rock the ship that sustains us? No, Sir, so please don't be offended because I speak from that which I know. Intimately.
@Mashnn (4501)
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22 Jan 12
Sorry for how you feel and what you have gone through. The superiority complex will always be there for those who thinks that there are better than others but I believe in fair game and whatever you do to other person will one day be done to you.
It is hurting and annoying to see other people getting promoted when in deed you have more experience but because there is nothing much you can do, try to be patient and ask God to give you a better job and remember that, God is watching over you and whatever you are going through. Be proud of your race because you are special and wonderfully made.
@BlaqKwene (45)
• United States
22 Jan 12
Well, when we are young, we say it won't be like that for us. We won't be like our patents, smiling and crap to make things easier when the "bosses" come around. As I grow older, I find the more I show my teeth, the less stress I have at the end of the day. The more things change,the ore they will stay the same.
@BlaqKwene (45)
• United States
22 Jan 12
Not patients, parents. This auto correct is driving me crazy!
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
22 Jan 12
I believe that the problem begins in our tendence to form small and closed groups, that may be based on color, religion, nationality,etc, that comes from our distant past, and, makes dificult to accept those who are "diferent". This, of course, is a non-valid behaviour in today´s world, actually, it only talks bad of the people with such backward thinking. Of course, race does not mean anything, also, is not important what religion, political thinking, or place of origin a person has, all, what should be important, in the working field, should be his/her performance, and, in the personal level, it should matter even less. I suffered more or less the same as you, while living in the US for a shor period, studying, and, I know that can be depressing, specially if you are alone, wich was my case, but, I tell you, that this is something that does not last long, try to stablish relationship with some fellow worker, there is always people with a more open mind, and don´t pay much attention to those who wants to misvalue you, unless there is violence involved, words don´t hurt you, unless you pay attention to them. Do the best you can, and, soon, you´ll see thing improving, I sincerely hope so.
@Informer (802)
• India
23 Jan 12
I am also feeling very bad about the problem you are facing. I know all people are not same but some are there and things things difficult for others. It happens around the world in different kinds, some do partiality in race, some in religion, some in locality or regions etc. God give them the right thinking.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jan 12
I'm sorry for what your going through. It's definitely not right. Not all white people are like that though. I don't look at other races that way. I have dated other races and I did not feel like they were any less than me. Matter of fact with one guy I felt much less than him because he had a career with a really nice house and I wasn't sure at the time what I even wanted to do with my life.
I absolutely know racism exists here and I for one hate it. It is unfair. I wish there was something we could all do to completely get rid of it. It would be a much more peaceful world.
I can still hope that someday somehow racism will stop...In all directions no matter what race you are, we are all people made in God's image and thats the way people should see it...
@BlaqKwene (45)
• United States
22 Jan 12
I agree, but my father is biracial, my brothers married white women, and they have very very light children. But, in some communities, white women, with biracial children are treat poorly as well. Their own families cut them off! Oh yes, that still happens as well. My nephew got a girl from Iowa pregnant and her father kicked her out in the streets. She was still in high school, and pregnant. They refuse to see the baby (other than a big head, she's cute. She could pass for white, except she has a round nose, freckles, tan, but she has blue eyes, blond hair). I have hazel eyes, brown/red hair,but it's got abit of grey as I am a few years from fifty, if I am blessed to see it.
@ShinDarkfox (152)
• United States
23 Jan 12
In my opinion race is merely the different way a person's ancestors adapted to their environment and nothing more. In the end it is just that. Sure there are some genetic differences but that is only the cosmetic genes. It is like different sub-species of wolf, or different kinds of cats. Coloration, size and so forth is just how their bodies adapted to their surroundings.
People should see us all as one species, rather than several races. We are all members of one race: mankind. That's all I think.
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
22 Jan 12
It is surprising to hear that race colour etc are still bringing depression to people in a nation like America. I am in India and Mahatma Gandhi, our nation father was the first man to fight against it in S.Africa.