Again I am feeling boring at mylot
By lovedude
@lovedude (4447)
India
January 22, 2012 8:06am CST
It was before almost a year.. I was feeling very bored at mylot and left for 2-3 months.. again I am feeling same boring here.. don't know why.. questions starting around is very common and may be from those subjects which are not relevant to me.. Most of times I answer technically answer that too not about audio/video conversion.. and from couple of days I am not getting interesting questions.. :-(
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24 responses
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 12
Perhaps the way on how Mylot works does not seem attractive to you. I would say that perhaps it is not suit with yourself. Maybe you could dig some other discussions or make your own discussions but I think it won't works with you as you will feel the same thing again. So it's up to you. Like you whenever I feel bored I will leave mylot for some time and get back here whenever I get the feel to do so~(^^)
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
23 Jan 12
maybe your friends dont discuss fun things? ive found that if you get friends interested in the same things and you talk/type to them just like you are sitting together visiting, its fun here. honest try that
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
23 Jan 12
and btw, you need to answer your comments on your discussions
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
22 Jan 12
Dear friend, I try to be active every day, commenting on at least 10 posts per day. Then when I have the right inspiration, maybe even write some discussion.
You must not feel bored I'm on mylot I have learned many things, first my english (I'm Italian) is significantly improved.
Of course, this I assure you, if you lose the enthusiasm, there is the risks of leaving this wonderful site. In my opinion it would be a pity!
@Sum1PassingBy (419)
• Jordan
22 Jan 12
It's common to feel this way here since the number of active people is very small and most people post random discussions and not about stuff people with particular expertise can only answer.
I would say the best solution is getting away for a couple of days and coming back here with new and fresh ideas. That usually helps me.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Jan 12
If you read the guidelines, right under
“Start discussions promoting a milestone, such as birthdays, anniversaries, reaching a certain myLot rating, etc. This is best celebrated via private messaging with your myLot friends.”
It says, “don’t be bored.” Next to home and the little up and down bar. Look for it!
Now if you do, remember me, and for heavens sake don’t get bored.
What car racer was afraid of fire and yet that was how his final race ended?
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
23 Jan 12
Hi... If you are bored with the discussions, then do some tasking.. :) If you don't find discussions in your favorite topics then create some... Or else go to those topics and find out whats in there... myLot is too diverse and I don't feel bored here, ever...
Happy Lotting...
@vikram3101989 (684)
• India
23 Jan 12
I have been a member of mylot since 2 years i think and i have never posted regularly as i am busy with my college work but if i do find time i always come here to spend time in mylot. The key here in mylot is to post quality replies to topics
@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Jan 12
MyLot is indeed getting a bit slower than the usual nowadays. It may be because most of the users around are working in their real jobs and others may be busy with other things...
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
23 Jan 12
Well, if you think you're a boring person, maybe you need to browse different websites so you will get more interesting ideas that you can share in this website.
I have seen the same topics once and over and over and over again, reason why this website can get boring too, I think.
People who start discussions should check before, with the search function, if that topic has been discussed before or not.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
25 Jan 12
Yes, there are times where i'm bored in mylot as well. However i feel even worse when i rest for too long, seeing those notifications in my inbox is enough to turn me off further. That's one reason i'm not as active in mylot now as some of my friends are always starting the same kind of discussions and each time, it's more than 5-10. It's more like a form of stress to me, yet i can't simply ignore them as it's my earnings.
@jordq7 (576)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Hi there lovedude..
Well I can't blame you for being bored in the discussions here in mylot.Even I have this feelings sometimes,maybe becoz I really couldn't find any discussion that catches my attention and that I already experience so that I can relate to it.It's hard to respond to any discussion if you can't relate or imagine it to yourself.I also depend on my mood and my eagerness to participate.
I actually already took a break here in mylot.It's a long break and I only sign in here in mylot to check and to avoid being deleted for being dormant.I guess it's pretty normal to feel bored here in mylot especially when the discussions are just redundant and tackles about the same thing all over again.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
I know how you feel. Don't let it drown you Lovedude. Go into deeper and you will find what you are looking for here in myLot. It is not myLot which makes you boring. It is you think it is. Be open minded and try to reach out to people here. Maybe they are new that is why you can't seem to reach them. I hope you will cope up with it.
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
23 Jan 12
I know how you feel. I lot of times, I come here to myLot and see the same type of discussions. On those days, I just don't comment anything and go do something else otherwise I just will answer stupid things. I only come back when I'm the mood to answer the discussions. If you don't feel like answering again, maybe you should give a break again.
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
Lots of similar discussion are being created every each day. No wonder if you're being bored and think that there's lack of interesting discussion.
And also, if you are being in myLot for several days in a row, I guess it is normal if you feel a lil bored.. Maybe you should take your time to rest a bit..
Or maybe you should explore myLot more. Adding more interests that you like and checking today's top and hot discussion might helps a bit..
@smurfysmurf (651)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Hi LoveDude,
There are times that we really get bored in here most especially if there are no discussion of our interest anymore. So, we end up just looking for our other websites..or even our social networking sites.
And in my case, I would go over watching my favorite dramas online..and then would go every now and then trying to find some interesting ones.
As what other advised us, it would be best to explore and add up topics of our interest so that we will see those discussions in our home page.
Hope that really works.
Happy Mylotting.
@aizabasiga (63)
• Hungary
23 Jan 12
I think many things on your mind thats why you cant concentrate here.Just try to focus your mind here.