My husband is going on a tour..
By sumatix
@sumatix (257)
United Arab Emirates
January 22, 2012 12:42pm CST
My husband is going out of place on a tour for 4 days.I will be alone with my 10 month baby.I am wondering what should i do in that time.Generally my time passes jugling in dailly routine of my husband's office, lunch, dinner ,baby routine and other house hold chores.Now on one side i feel that this time would bring some free time for myself.Don't know what to do any suggestions?
4 responses
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
just keep yourself busy like what im doing right now, im also alone as my baby is at the province right now with my parents so im all alone for a week now. im just keeping myself busy with my job and whenever im hope or during my rest day i just watch tv nor go mylotting or doing other stuff online.in your case you can be busy cuddling your baby, check out baby's article online or watch movie nor tv or go to sleep with your baby as days will end without missing your husband at all. just think of a happy thought that his just nearby doing his job instead of thinking that his too far from you.
@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Jan 12
Yes homeshoppers well said i will be busy and utilise my time with my baby as i will not be in hurry of completing my household work according to my husbands routine..do whatever when you like...it is giving me a feeling that i am back in my days when i was not married,free to do whatever i like no one to judge me, or ask me why this and why not...ohh what those days were...
and thanks for the suggestion of thinking that he is nearby thats really good one as it will make me feel more easy instead of being nervous for being alone.thanks..
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
22 Jan 12
If I were you I would take advantage of the free time that you have. Do somethings that you enjoy. It will give you a little break from all of the things that you have to do and get done. I hope that you enjoy yourself. Have a great evening.
@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Jan 12
Thanks dominique that is what i am looking forward too. and that is the reason i sought for mylotters advice in advance so that unknowingly i don't miss out something in excitement..Its ging to be for the first time i will be alone in my marriage of almost two years..so a bit nervous and also excited..its a mix..
@TeamCholent (2832)
• United States
22 Jan 12
Take this time to relax and enjoy yourself, perhaps take the baby to a park if the weather is good. You can always create a welcome back gift for him when he returns as I am sure you guys will miss him.
@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Jan 12
Thanks a lot teamcholent.I am really looking forward to it as i will be free with my baby and a bit change from my daily routine.everyone needs a break ohhh.......
and yes that return gift idea is really good..would you like to put in some suggestions regarding the return gift....
certainly we are going to miss him as only we three are family here..we are out of our country so no relatives here and no such family friends..But yes i do have some on mylot..so will spend time mylotting..
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
22 Jan 12
I think you will be busy enough with a baby. Or is your husband usually at home 24/24??? Perhaps you will have some free time. You can read a book, catch some extra sleep, watch a movie you like, ask a friend to come over or just have more time to enjoy your baby.
@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Jan 12
no wakeup kitty my husband is not at home. he leaves early in the morning so my day starts with him. preparing his breakfast.when he is gone then i do things for my baby like massaging him, giving him a bath, preparing his food, feeding him, a bit playing etc,then i prepare our lunch.when my husband is home at lunch it helps me a lot as for some time i am free he takes care of baby as he is just 10 month.Then again he leaves and is back in the evening then he again take baby with him so i am able to take some rest and cook our dinner..
This is basically our routine yes offcourse with some changes.
as you said i will be busy with my kid yes but at the same time i will be free too as i will not be doing all that kitchen work which i am when he is there..:)
well thanks for the suggestions.
