Complicated Love

as a girl, l cannot stand far-distant love. in different places, we will break up easily,and it is sad. so please understand her and talk with her completely. maybe she is also in dilemma.

you have been played by this girl. She has given you false hope, maybe she noticed your obvious interest on her. Sadly, she is not interested. Just go find another girl that will return your affection as well.

Did you remind her of what she said to you? Don't feel cheated, just move on. According to my mom, one is good, two is enough and three is dangerous. If you've opened up to her in the first two attempts and failed and still not successful on the third one, then you really need to think about this.

I think she is not serious when she said that to you. I think you have to forget that girl so you can move on. I think she just want to play a relationship with you in the future but you caught the truth before it happened. Maybe she also don't like the long distance relationship.

Lucas, for me it is game over! She just played with your feelings and you cannot love someone that plays like this with you. First respect yourself then be respected and respect others. So what to do? Nothing, just keep cool, do not hate her, just take her out of your head this is for your own good! You will find the one deserves you :)

I think the girl doesn't mean to cheat you but she might be in a state of confuse too. As you said you like her a lot but you two were in two different places, she might not feel the love as much as what you told. Since there is someone else that able to be with her any minute she needs, perhaps comfort her and cheer her up, for that, it's real, instead of far distance phone call or messages. She said she'll begin a relationship with you if both of you are in a same place, but, it was too late. So, there is nothing else you can do but to let go and move on.

hi Lucas818, I guess for you in order to have a peace of mind with it, you can ask her for a date and if she agreed, then grab your chance to ask questions with her. She might be confuse with what she feels. I think that women look for other guys sometimes because they no longer feel attach with their boyfriends or they are starting to lose the warm feelings they had with their partners before. Asking her to have a talk to you, heart to heart will for sure make things clear. If he has feelings for you, then that is a good news; however, if you feel that she is just playing with your feelings, I think it is your time to move on and find a better woman who will love you faithfully.

don`t hope her anymore.. in this world, there are many girls.. she had cheated you..so left her...

Yes you've been cheated. The only thing you can do in that situation will be to move on and find another girl. Maybe you're not meant to each other. Go seek adventures dude, and by doing that maybe you will find the right girl. I was in your situation before. It's so hard to let go. I don't have many friends to talk with so i was like devastated but after a months i feel refreshed like its a new me. Maybe you will think im weird but its the truth.

I get that you were far away from each other for some time and she never had any feelings for you as she didn't accept your proposals for two times. I guess she said that she is ready to go in a relationship with you is because she may want to make you feel comfortable at that time. She might also have said that she is in relationship with another person just to stop you from loving her anymore. If you love her then there is no reason that she has to love you back. These are days where people are not keeping their promises given to their loved ones. Anyway its better to leave this here as you will only hurt yourself more if you hope that she would come back to you. If she is really with someone then she is not coming back. If she lied to you about this then she really doesn't want you and there is no good in again going back to her. She is not the right person for you.

First of all what you mentioned here i get that you are friends..Right? Then when you both were far from eachother you would have missed her as you know clearly that you are in love with her and at the same time she must be missing you for sure as you were away from her and she asked you to come back to her.. To me it seems that the girl is somewhere confused with her existing relationship which she may be wanting to end up but is unable to out of some reason but at the same time she don't want you to be way from her.so somewhere unknowingly you have gained a space in her heart.I get such feeling.. so just go out with her to some place where you both can talk on this topic, some cozy area where she can open up her feelings towards you..Just help her out in realising in herself that she misses you if you are not there..as she may be confused or afraid of accepting this fact..

yes ,you are cheated by her because she know that you loves her blindly but she does not loves you. that is why she is playing with your emotions. i suggest you that just leave her and find someone else who really understand your feelings and loves you also. and stop talking with her. i hate that kind of persons who play with others emotions.

It is a rather awkward situation for you. It seems she was already in a relationship when you talked to her about your love. Or did the new relationship start within that one week time? May be she wants to get out of it yet is not sure how to. You say that you told her twice but she did not respond positively. May be she only wanted you as a friend but does not want to be a lover. She might also need your friendship. So lied to you. Do not feel so desperate. you will find a girl who loves you back as much as you love her.

Sorry to hear about that but it seems that the girl she's not interested with you anymore,For my idea better to let her go and give her a freedom.because u can still search a girl more than her.