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I became acquainted with a girl 10 years ago, let's called her name A, she lives (lets call it the city of DA) and I live in city of DB. By the time we met, she was 18 years old and I am 24 years. We met through chat programs, actually I was met by her friend but her friend gave to A my mobile number, and finally I became acquainted with A. For 10 years, we've lost contact for almost a few months but finally we can get in touch again through short message or telephone. In 10 years we have increasingly close in that relationship, which in the beginning we were both just as the brother and sister, but eventually from time to time, we fell in love, but we have never met even once. We just knew from voice itself. Actually, our religion is different, I asked her if she wanted to move into the religion I profess, and she said no problem to move into my religion. I say that if we have a good intention and sincere to continue this relationship up to the wedding, then we both will be given a way by the Lord's. And day by day, our relationship become more deep and I asked her to married with me but she still hesitated, and finally I said better we continue as it is just like what she want and continued to pray that we can be united in marriage. But in January 2012 yesterday, she showed a different attitude, and in fact this has been going about a month which is between November-December 2011 but I do not matter and I never ask why. But in January 2012 yesterday, her attitude already looks different than normal, and finally I venture to ask her about this. She answered nothing happen to me, but after I begged to be truthful, she said that she had been asked by her friend to get married with him. Her friend was working in the town of DC, and her friend said that he has a target to marry with A in next year. I do not know what to say, A said that she affection, and love me, but she hesitated to proceed with our relationship especially after a friend asked her to marry, his doubts grew. I am attempting to ask, is there any possibility for me to marry her? She replied, there are no chance possibility for us because we are different and we've talked before. I am more confused by her manner that seemed to play a love triangle between the three of us, while I still want to ask her to marry me but she said that she was hesitant and unsure. Maybe I was a foolish man in the world, who still dreams to be able to marry her while there is a principle difference between us, I really can not forget the affection and my love for her. And now she 28 years old and I am almost 34 years. Maybe if my condition was like her, I'm also going to be like her, I was just trying to understand as I can, and I can only pray to God, if indeed she is my wife for the rest of my life, please make her close to me, so I can really hold her in my shoulder, unite us in a wedding and help us to get out for past obstacles.Aaamin