i had a crush on you ^_^
By goodgurL
@goodgurL (92)
Philippines
January 23, 2012 3:48am CST
i just want to express my feelings,i just want to burst it out inside of me. i had a crush on him, because i like the way he treats me. but?i don't know if i am special for him because he treat all of us the same. the sad part of it he knows everything about me because i share all my problem to him except my feeling for him i can't share it to him because i have no guts to do that. i don't know exactly why suddenly i like this guy, he even not my type the way he is. but i like the way he treat me. i can't help my self when he try to talk to me as if were just alone and laugh together. for being with him for almost 3 months i can't imagine i like him. i'm comfortable with him ^_^
*** will you help me to find out what is this feeling all about? and help what should i do? ***
12 responses
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Well it really depends, you should be brave enough to face whatever consequence that you will get by choosing to tell him your feelings. Maybe your assuming too much or maybe your both on the same page, who knows right? What you can do is, give him some signs or signals and take it from there. Just remember that, not all people will feel the same way that you do. So expect the unexpected. Goodluck!
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
The feeling you are experiencing right now is a sign that you are displaying an admiration for him. You told us that you are comfortable being with him and he treated you nicely. That would somehow impact the admiration you are having for him right now.
If you are asking what you should do, then I would say let it be what you are feeling right now. We are humans and normally we have emotions, so definitely it is very normal to have this kind of feeling.
Not everyone does experience this kind of affection or admiration like those who are mentally disabled and/or special children, so we should always be thankful to GOD because He lets us experience this kind of feeling.
Who knows one day, he will be your future husband. If he has the qualities you are looking for, example, respectful, gentleman, humorous, affectionate, and most of GOD fearing, then I think he is really deserving to be loved.
Best of luck and happy mylotting!
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
hello Goodgurl, well the only way to solve your problem is to approach the guy, tell how you feel for him, As man myself, most of times when a girl start to turn the pages, we will keep on reading to the last chapter.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
23 Jan 12
It may be a crush now and turn to love later if you allow this to go on . Take more time to identify your feelings and desire . If you think you can carry on with him in future also then continue to enjoy his company or else try to move apart as soon as possible .
@mselin (77)
• India
23 Jan 12
It seems like a crush alright.and it seems you do not want to tell him first.
But you will feel awful for not being able to express it yet wanting to. May be you should tell him as if a joke, not that you like him may be something like that. May be ask him if he would ever like a girl like you, what his preferences are. Of course, make it very casual. Do not talk as if you are saying because you like him.
Anyways, expect him to take it as a joke itself. You already feel that he treats every one the same way.
Also if you do not want to make it a relationship, just let it hang there, if it is simply a crush, you will get over it in no time.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Hi Goodgurl! This is the challenge that girls have hahahahah! Dont speak up yet. Are you a filipina? How we wish that men would make the first move noh? I can imagine what he is like, a total gentleman right? Sheesshh! Girls go gaga over those breeds hahaha!
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
Do you know the person that he likes?..if he tell you her name maybe you are not the one he like but i think if he is not telling you the name of that girl there are some possibility that you are the girl that he like. I think you feel comfortable to him because both of you are always together and he know all the things about you. For me,when i'm with someone that i trust and know everything about me, i feel comfortable to him.
@heartbit (237)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
hi goodgurl,
you have a crush alright and it sure is difficult to gauge his feelings for you if he treats everyone the same like yours. maybe there is something that sets his attention to you apart from the others? i hope, haha. its only three months so just enjoy every moment of being with him. im sure by now you know if he has a girlfriend or courting someone else? if none, then get your hopes a little and block all girls eying him. haha. just joking. be happy!
@Lannielui (83)
• United States
24 Jan 12
Its nice to be treated right. It is natural to develop feelings for someone who treats us well. Sometimes these things grow on us and we wind up falling in love with the person. Sounds like your emotions are leading you down a path of strong feelings. Sometimes our hearts choose someone that normally we wouldnt ever consider choosing, they just 'grow' on us. Some people fall in love with their friends and the relationship just changes naturally. It depends on whether you want to allow it to grow or stop it as to what you should do next...