what is the diferent between single and married?
By aizabasiga
@aizabasiga (63)
Hungary
13 responses
@chelley (129)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Being single is that you can do anything you want and no one can stop you from doing those things. In Married Life, is having a lot of responsibility like you have to work and earn money to provide good life to your family and of course less time for friends :)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
24 Jan 12
It all depends on what you think marriage means And if it matches your partner's view. And it also depends on what being single means to you too. To me and Only me, marriage means slavery for the woman and a power trip for the male. It is a war of wills and love should not be mixed into it. Being Single does not mean you are all alone, it just means you are not married. In the eyes of the state I will always be single but I am with my guy. Since we will never marry we are equal. Many see marriage that way, two equals joining their lives. And you marry to show how much you love a person. This is why I said your vision Has to match your partner's. I knew if a guy asked me to marry him I would say no and walk away. Now I know if a guy Has to marry, he isn't the guy for me and I am definitely the woman for him. He would see my no as proof I don't love him and I would see his proposal as proof he Doesn't love me!So It All depends!
@eunife (165)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
when you are single, you have the freedom. you choose and decide on your own, you are one alone in your self. when you get married, you become a two-of-you thing. you will now consider what is best for both of you and your partner. he will always be a part of your decisions and choices and the same with you to him. it's like having one life shared by two persons. you are not alone anymore.
@pebblez8989 (321)
• United States
24 Jan 12
single is when your alone, you don't have no one. single life is kind of boring to me i think you would want someone to love you. married life is when you settle down with the right person that you love so much. married life is such a nice way to live i think that its a happier life.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
there is a huge difference between single life and married life. for one, single life means more freedom to do many things in life. with more freedom, life becomes less directed to a meaningful journey. more freedom means more choices. there are more distractions in life. married life provides direction and dedication to a meaningful life with a partner and children.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
23 Jan 12
It really all depends on how you lived your life before the marriage. If you lived with the fiance, then it won't be much different. In little ways it will gradually become different, more "combined" responsibilities. If you've never lived with them then it's like jumping into the pool and not knowing how to swim, you have to teach yourself. It's tough, but it's worth it.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
23 Jan 12
The great thing about being single is you can do what you want. No discussions about what you eat, friends comming over, going out, the clothes you wear or don't want to wear, the destination of your holiday, paying bills, if you buy a car or tv set, no cleaning up the mess of a partner, no accepting strange habits, giving in, giving up on your own dreams, goals, future plans. No need to share, nobody will lie to you or cheat on you. You don't need to ask first (to go out, to buy something, to watch a tv program etc etc).
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Jan 12
There really isn't that big of a differences. Being single you do t come home to someone. When your marrid you have someone to come home to to share things with. You have someone help you through the good and te bad and they will always be there for him or her an he or he will always be there for you.
@ashvinspatel (84)
• India
23 Jan 12
All single want to be married and every married miss the single days. :)) so better enjoy single as u can and when not possible to stay more get married. Not forgot u not to be too late for that..........:)
@azfarali (25)
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23 Jan 12
single is king and married is salve. Single can do any thing but married only respond to its family order. single in not that much responsible while married is more responsible.everybody need partners in their life but when partner come in life tension increase.According to science 50% tensions of life are related to marriage.
@Radical670 (16)
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23 Jan 12
A little boy asked his father,"Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?"And the father replied,, "I don't know, son, I'm still paying for it."
Single life, I had more fun.
Married life,I have more peace of mind.
Which is better?? Haven't decided,but I'm working on bringing back the fun part. :D