what do you think of men getting jealous?
By eunife
@eunife (165)
Philippines
January 24, 2012 10:19am CST
i have a friend who came to work overseas while her husband stayed at home to take care of their son. "who works for the family" is not really and issue i think because it is the woman that got that opportunity. what can be done with that? the thing is, she always cry because every time they talk on phone or via internet, the husband gets jealous over some imaginary non-existing guy. i feel sorry for her because she's really working very hard here and her husband is of no help to boost her emotion. instead, he accuse her of having another guy base on nothing but paranoia! what do you think of that?
3 responses
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
Well it depends, because sometimes person gets jealous because you are not giving him any assurance and security. Sometimes we say that there is nothing to be jealous about, but what we need to understand is jealousy doesnt always require a 3rd party for it to be there. So, assure them that you love them every single day, never get tired of it.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jan 12
I think it is hard enough for her being away from them so the husband should be more emotionally supportive for her!
If she has never done anything like that in the past (cheating) then he should have nothing to worry about.
Some guys are just immature or insecure with themselves. I know some guys like this and it is super annoying! They need to have more confidence in their marriage. Without trust in a marriage, you have nothing!
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
24 Jan 12
Well, I think the husband nis very immature. And she is te one that is working while he stays home! I understand that taking care of a kid is work but there is just no excuse for that. I also think that if this cintinues, in the future she will find someone else.
