Scared straight

By C
@ShyBear88 (59347)
Sterling, Virginia
January 24, 2012 3:58pm CST
Have you see the show scared beyond straight where they take troubled teens and bring them to prison to have the people scare them so and that they don't want to every go? Do you think somethin like this will really work for all of those teens that go and see the prison? I don't think all of the teens it'll work for forever. They get scared cry and then good home to be good but what stops them fromgoing down that path once again. A lot of people that have gown to prison go back several times before they stop there behavior and others that one time being away for a long time completely changes them.
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• United States
25 Jan 12
I believe that this may work for some but not all. If they are truly evil all this means they will shoot it out with the cops instead of being taken to jail! I always thought that a smart kid would act asthought they have changed Only to get home and become worse!
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• United States
25 Jan 12
I wasn't talking about the average teen who breaks the law and pays for their crime and grows up to be a decent human being . I was talking about the evil ones who could be sent to jail over and over again never will learn the lessen.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Jan 12
Yeah okay that helps. But jail is different then prison we are talkig about prison. Prison is more then a year and the kids on the show are the ones that would go in for more then a year. Jail is short time like stealing certain things. Or drunk driving with no one hurt.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Jan 12
I don't think yet are evil misguided sure. A lot of kids are easily influences by other kids and adults around them. What they see they do but it doesn't mean they are getting it from there parents. Smart or not has nohing to do with behavior. I don't see a kid as evil if they do something stupid and end up in jail jail is short seances prison you there for a year or more. I don't see then as evil we all do evil things then from saying names to doing dangerous things that might not only change there life but others.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
30 Jan 12
Though I've never seen the show, I honestly don't think that it is something that would really work either. The reason that I don't think it will actually keep young people from making the wrong decisions is because of the fact that a lot of people that spend time in jail when they are teenagers will turn around and break the law again after they are adults. If the whole philosophy of scaring someone straight would work, it would work on young offenders as well.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 Feb 12
I agree. Yeah a lot of people as well as young adults that break the law are more likely to break the law again and again. Its some times a cycle that never ends.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
24 Jan 12
it probably would work with some kids but I think maybe seeing the affects that crime and such does to the families of some crimes, maybe seeing victims in hospital and how their lives have been affected may help as well...then their are some kids nothing would work..
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Jan 12
I agree some things never work fo some kids. Going to perison and seeing it can be enough for a lot of kids and for some going through the actions of making a mistake that can't be taken back and paying the price for it teaches them. Even then some will always stay in prison and keep doing things the wrong way.
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
24 Jan 12
I always wondered the same thing. I didn't see how one day of something like that is going to make these kids just completely change and be good all the sudden. I'm sure on some kids it works but on others I don't see how it could. I'm sure being in there is scary but if they go back home to a life where they are around bad influences and stuff like that then it's hard to be good.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Jan 12
Agree and that's when I think the parents need to help out more by showing them what is a good influences and what is good behave and not good behavior. I know some parents have a hard time putting there foot down.
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@greysfreak (1384)
• United States
11 Feb 12
I don't like when people do these programs, I never had. I definitely think there is need for discipline, but I would be more likely to look into counseling and/or spending more time with the kid, than shipping them off to a horrible, violent environment where they are going to be surrounded by people who might even be more troubled than they are. From personal experience, I wasn't troubled in the behavioral aspect, actually the total opposite. But I had a lot of emotional problems as a teen, and I experienced being in a facility with troubled adolescents. I only stayed for like a day because it scared me a lot, because the other teens on my unit were older and had behavioral problems, lets just say, I would never even consider sending my kid to that environment, and I was so lucky that my parents weren't willing to leave me in that situation. On the other hand, right before that I was in another facility that was ok, but I definitely feel like it instilled certain things in me even deeper. So personally, when I am a parent, I feel strongly that I would try everything else, before looking into any kind of facilities to help my kid, because most the time it only encourages certain behaviors, compounds then, instead of stopping them. Not to mention, the people on those shows always scare me, and I couldn't stand to think of my kid being treated like that, no matter what they did.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
13 Feb 12
I have to disagree with as a parent already. Some times you have to put your child in places or sistuations that you don't want to them to be in but it does teach them for the most part that you do things like your doing and keep doing them even when help had been give. You can give certain people all the help and attention in the world but that doesn't stop the behavior what does is the person themselves not wanting to further hurt themselves or there parents. You never as a parent want to see your kid doing things that you don't want them to do. You don't want seem them doing bad things that can over time and will get them in jail or prison or even worse killed. So some times scaring your child is saving them in the end. Its like telling a child not to do something and having someone talk to them or even you talking to them and spending time with them doesn't fix things. You can want your child to be better you can want your child not to get hurt or do bad things. You can want a lot of things for them but that doesn't mean they won't do something that you don't like and that doesn't mean all the help in the world will change them. When then go they aren't left there over night its a few hours with an officer in the room with them at all times. These are inmates wanting to help these kids not end up in the same way they are in the same places so yeah they are going to treat them badly but not hurt them physically just talk to them in a way that no one else will understand besides them. One bad thing in your life can not only change your child's life but the lives around them.