Name Calling.

Hi Sara ! I do not believe in calling names. If I call name of my near and dear ones, it means am not only hurting them but to myself also. There could be other ways to vent out the anger but calling names is not appropriate.

Well, I think if I was possessed by anger could do things that would be safe after repented, ie including insults. Anger is one of the most difficult enemies to fight.

no, we never do that. my husband says, when you're angry, don't talk too much. hit me if you want but don't say bad words. you can break anything around the house to let out of your anger. we can replace them anyway. but the words you say will not be taken back even if you say your sorry and you did not mean it. i am very thankful because when i'm angry, my husband just let me do the talking and when i cooled off, that's when he talk to me sincerely.

Hi behen At times yes, your bhai was guilty of this. But it is not the argument but the frustration or the anger that plays bad. Those who know me, know for sure that I am a clean hearted person who doesnt feel comfortable in keeping anything to himself. And so goes with anger too. If I am upset, I do vent out and that is all... once done with it, I forget as if nothing has happened. I know, it is quite an unhealthy thing to do... and am happy that over the years, I have learned to control this aspect for me. Today, I rarely get angry and calling names is definitely not anywhere near - I have learned to keep the anger to myself - I owe this to one bollywood movie where the dad said to the son - It is good that the incident has angered you but you must learn to tame the anger, control it, and save it for later use when you are stronger and in the right mindset to take a better decision. This dialog did move me and it took me years to put this in real practice.

Hi there sarahruthbeth, I hope that you are doing awesome today, well for me i guess there were times that I couldn't control myself and shout at my girl ( I never win an argument with her before. But never names i curse at the wind but i think never at her. I think a gentleman and a person who loves and respects you should never be treated by being called in names

i dont understand well,maybe you mean you call him like honey but when you argued he will call you by your name? Is that what you are trying to say?Well for me its ok,well we are in a quarell so I am already angry and in that time,me for sure wont say any sweet call for him.I would do the same.

I don't think name-calling does any good as it distracts from anything positive that could come out of the argument.

I wouldn't be good with the name calling either. I don't call names either..well..I have called him an ahole before but he was trying to be one when I said it so it wasn't actually an insult Now if it comes to anything more than that...never ever.

I try not to, but if I get really riled up..Then I probably will.. When I'm angry, I just kind of 'let it all out'... Ha ha. I wouldn't take it personally if my beau said something like that to me - just because I know how it's like to have this uncontrollable anger. As long as he admitted it was wrong and apologized (and promised to try not to do it again) I guess I'd be OK with it.

I don't call names, I also don't curse. it depends on the person if I find it worth the fight/argue also. My husband is also not calling names.

in normal condition we does not call each other by the names but sometimes yes if there is any family member is around us then we can call each other b the names. but in the case when we argue ,never ,because it can make condition more difficult.if we are in argue and suddenly either i or she will take names of our partner then it seems very awkward and we can feel very uncomfortable and it can make distance between us. so i remember this thing to never do such thing in unfavorable condition.

If someone is worthy of your love they will not stoop so low as to call you by some lowly dorrogatory name. No matter what you are disagreeing about there is no need fpr name calling. UNLESS: If I were to catch him in bed with some other girl I would call them BOTH quite a few choice names!!!! But that would be the only exception to the rule that I can think of!!

i agree with you there and i had my boyfriend that would call you names n cal you mean words