private space vs always together
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
January 25, 2012 3:14pm CST
now I realise how wrong I was when I tought that we should spend all the time together. loving him made me wish to be all the time together with him but this could get really suffocating. now I agree with the fact that we should have our private time with our friends and not to be 24/7 together...but sadly now it's too late
8 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Jan 12
It's normal for us women to want to be with our guy all the time. My husband and I wanted to be together all the time before we got married and we are still like that...
But most men are not that way. Most guys also have friends, my husband doesn't because he does not trust people.
I'm sorry you only learned this after it was too late. =( I wish you could turn back time and fix it...
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
25 Jan 12
I don't want to turn back time...it's ok the situation just the way it is now. there were other things too that determined us to break-up. I think that we should always keep a relationship also with friends. now I wouldn't do the same mistakes that I did back in the past and I would try to keep a balance between spending time with him and with my friends
@princessem (86)
• United States
25 Jan 12
Why is it too late? You should just make plans with friends and let your partner know how much you miss him when you are apart, but how important it is to have time away from each other, because it will make your relationship stronger.. Absence makes the heart grow fonder!
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
26 Jan 12
It's too bad that it's too late...at the same time, a lot of relationships start out with always being together and then adjust. It could just be that he isn't the relationship type.
@sathannan (2)
• Poland
26 Jan 12
why is it too late?? You can tell him for some distance because with distance grows the love!! :D I hope you understood.
@leeannahewitt21 (97)
• United States
26 Jan 12
that sucks because i went through the same thing when it happend to me also
@hitsujichan16 (66)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
You and your partner needs some time too to spend with your friends..being 24/7 is really suffocating,even married people needs it coz if your always together you just see each other weakness and mistakes.Being possessive is not good in a relationship you should give time for yourself and for him too..
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
25 Jan 12
There is always time to change. There is still hope for both of you, if you really love each other. Because no matter what are the circumstances and odds that are happening in your relationship, if you both love each other, you can go through and pass through all of it. You will surpass all those things. You need to support each other, understand each other and have patience with each other. Love is not always for taking but also for giving. Giving second chances and forgiving that is all that matters. If all people know how to forgive, forget and move on with what happened and at the same time learn from every mistakes and hang ups with the relationship, nobody will be heartbroken, feel empty and sad. Cheer up, there is still time as long as you breathe and live.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Jan 12
For some people it does work, as long as you are in harmony and still have something to say to eachother. To the most people it doesn't work. Alsi it seldom gives you the possibility to develop the real you. We all need a bit space for us, some privacy and a to develop ourselves. Although with one person that need is more present as with the other.
