Can anyone relate to my unusual mentality?.....

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Hello mylot community I want to talk with you all about something I really don't like about my mentality. I want your opinions on whether this is bad or good which I doubt. Almost every time my parent's, bro's, well the people I'm close to are gone 4 longer than expected or don't pick up the phone I get these horrible thoughts of why that is. Death or danger comes to mind out of the blue literally without me even drawing those kinds of conclusions. Obviously my first thought is can't pick up while driving, and other obvious reasons but y do these scary imaginations come to mind? This changes my mood to worried and unable to be still. This has been happening for years and I have kept it to myself for too long and I do not think this is normal. I can't believe I never brought this up on doctor visits I would just say no when they ask anything else?? But I think denial is what's holding me back i'm not sure if I want to accept that I have a illness of some sort. I think these events in my life created this unpleasant mentality. My older brother R.I.P. was shot at in early 2006 and I answered the call receiving these horrid news. He was badly injured but survived. He recuperated but later that year in November he was shot at again at the same exact location but this time they struck him in the back of the skull :'( he was involved in a gang. he passed away few hours later at the hospital, only my parents and brother were the last to speak to him and yet again I was first to be notified being 15 years old at the time. Then my poor mother was hospitalized due to disbelief and great pain. That was the WORST day of our lives, my brother was killed on my grandmother's birthday(R.I.P. 2010/mom's side). Then just last year my other brother and cousin suffered a car crash due to the dumb idea of the drivers (not my bro or cousin) to race on a freeway at midnight after drinks at the beach with another car resulting in the death of 1 of their friends and I also received the devastating call. It's just that they told me, "I'll be back in a few hours if not then call me." I'm not crazy but these unwanted thoughts just seem to pop into my head automatically I hate it. There were times when my parents would leave together at night but my mother would come alone on the bus because of an argument which would tick me off. One of my other bros is very outgoing but has the bright idea of going out past midnight on foot to god knows where with friends i suppose and never calls and just comes back a day or 2 later out of the blue. I am tormented by these thoughts which cause me stress and fear and it's killing me! Are these unfortunate events the cause or is it something else?