Do you think that schools protect the young generation too much?
By SinfulRose
@SinfulRose (3527)
Davao, Philippines
January 27, 2012 2:13pm CST
It is a known fact that every action has two different outcomes: Positive and Negative--despite whatever it is the intention and/or means done by the doer of the action.
Let's narrow down the setting to schools...
School implements regulations/policies when they deem the policy is for the good of the majority with a good intention such as "banning of cellphones during class" to prevent students from being distracted during lessons. Which is a good thing.
But, by the adults protecting it's young, they also prevent them from learning life's important lessons such as the value of responsibility.
People learn from hardships and mistakes. Lesson learned is remembered,understood, and retained through practice.
Big things came from small things.
Once the student becomes a professional, and is free from adults' guidance, and once they face a certain problem, wouldn't they have more difficulty in solving and learning from it compared to knowing how to manage them while still young?
What is/are your opinion/s of this?
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5 responses
@crimsonladybug (3112)
• United States
27 Jan 12
While I am not sure the life lesson to be learned in being allowed to text your friend the answers to a test or leave class to take an "important" phone call (really? You're 16, what could possibly be so important that it can't wait until after class? Everyone you know is also in class except for your parents who should know better than to call you during class), I think there are a lot of rules and policies in place in today's public school system that are very detrimental to the students' growth.
Abolishing failing grades.
Unlimited chances to get an assignment correct.
I'm sure there are more examples, I'm just not thinking of them right now, but these things don't happen in real life. But so many schools are adopting these kinds of policies so no one gets their feelings hurt. Life sucks, get a helmet.
And I say parents should know better than to call their student during class but then I remember my old boss used to call her son at school at least once a week so maybe not.
@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jan 12
lol. My point here is something like, "Which is more important, academic learning or life learning?"
Academic learning is usually learned or already found in the net that one can only search it up, memorize, take the school test, and you have good grades if you recall most of them. (At least that's how I do in my school. So leaving class to take an important phone call (only my family can do that--and it only happens rarely) is A-OK)While learning how to handle certain things that comes to life is learned, remembered and maintained. Most of the time they are never forgotten compared to academic lessons such as "what happened during the 17XX year?".
The young generation today may need guidance but only to a certain extent, I believe, seeing as the youth today know so much compared to how people are before at their age. As you said, a student can text to a friend the answers to a test, but through this experience, that student may learn that he/she is being used by others to get correct (and wrong) answers. Wouldn't she/he learn that it is ethically wrong? Yes, it might take time. But when have people lost the time to learn the "important" lessons of life? Unless if the "important" lessons of life became the "Academic" lessons in school, that's another story...
You can say it would be too late. But I don't think it is too late as long as the person in question is still alive.(As long as there is life there is hope) Life lessons really does take time and understanding. But it is a lesson that will not be forgotten by those who really LEARNED them; not memorize. Lessons in life is always useful within a lifetime and learning them is just one of the things that make life worth living.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
Hello sinful rose,
I think in that it is important to teach a child what is wrong and what is right and let theme discover this in a young age so that they learn to make decisions early on in life that they can use once they grow up. Decision making is vital
@Masmasika (1921)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
This is a great post to ponder. I have been a teacher for many years and my opinion springs from my own observation. Children are individuals so they cannot be the same. Rules in school are made for the benefit of every student so if rules are set it means that everybody must follow. It is harder to discipline children when they are all involved so the best thing for schools to do is make the rules for all the students. Let's face it, although there are responsible students, most are not responsible so if school rules are too lax then discipline cannot be imposed successfully. While schools are places where children learn proper behaviors and responsibility, it is not easy to apply every rule successfully.
I wish it is that easy to just tell the children to obey rules but it takes countless reminders just for one rule or regulation to be obeyed by the kids and that is not all kids but sometimes just a few.
So, schools are only secondary places to learn discipline and the best place for them to learn their responsibility is at home.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
28 Jan 12
I don't know about protection but the schools here baby them too much. When I was a kid, snack time was over once you left kindergarten. Now, even the middle school gets a snack time. The elementary school that my younger child attends is much worse. I get a call from them for the dumbest things. They called once threatening me with social services because the back of her hair got messed up on the way to school. Our school system is run by morons.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
Yes,I know that. We see a lot of this discipline especially in Catholic schools. This is because of the negative forces around us and the consequent results of these bad influences. But yes, I think that some schools are overdoing it and this does not always lead to good behavior as young minds seem to rebel anything that controls them.