Admit it! You hate your job!

are you hating your job? - Beginning to hate your job?
@bounce58 (17385)
Canada
January 27, 2012 3:13pm CST
Since I just moved to this job of mine April of last year, I've still been in a honeymoon stage. I liked the added responsibility, and the proximity to my home. But like in anything, the novelty of being a 'new job' is wearing off. And I'm beginning to see a few things that I hate. This past few weeks, and most specially this week has been so stressful that the word 'hate' even floated on my head. Although I still wouldn't like to admit it, in the back of my mind I think I'm beginning to hate my job. So much so, that I even made an appointment for a job interview next week! So, how about you? Do you still like your job? Are you one of those lucky ones who have a very interesting and likeable job? Do you hate yours? Or are you way past hating your job?
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
28 Jan 12
Maybe it's just the type of work you do? I do not hate my job. Granted I've only been there 3 months.. but for me that is usually long enough to decide whether I like the job or not. I've honestly never held many jobs longer than 6 months. Probably never held one job for a full year. Subway was probably closest because I was there about 10-11 months. I certainly hated that job.. so much that I'm surprised I lasted as long as I did! So far I'm still liking my job. Over all it's a good job. The people I work with are great, the benefits are excellent, the pay is good, and for the most part the work itself is pretty much exactly what I wanted to be doing. In general I really like customer service type jobs. The only thing I occasionally have a problem with is the company's expectations of us. We are expected to get a certain amount of referrals per day (getting customers to enroll in new services or accounts). If we don't hit our referral goals there's heck to pay. The bank itself also has other goals it needs to meet, like it has to open X amount of accounts per week, and get X amount of credit cards per week, and we have customer delight goals, and wait time goals.. and on and on and on.. and each of us are responsible for doing our part to hit these goals, and when we don't the manager really comes down on us (not individually, but as a unit). So because we don't always hit these goals, we have more hoops to jump through. We have to fill out a form each day saying how many referrals we have, if we are above or below our goal, and what we did that day to make a customer's visit memorable. Also our computer will pop up offers for customers, and if we don't present those offers we have to print the screen and write why we didn't present that offer. On top of all that, we are expecting an audit any day now, and this is a big deal in our bank. Our bank has always gotten perfect audits, so there is a lot of pressure on us to continue getting perfect audits. The auditors will quiz each of us on certain policies and federal regulations.. most of which are easy but some are a bit more difficult. Some I'm still not completely familiar with yet, so I am certainly very nervous about this audit. So, I like my job, I'm just not crazy about being under so much pressure. I already put a lot of pressure on myself to perform well and do my job well. Each of these things just adds more pressure and sort of overwhelms me. There's a part of me that wishes the job could be easier.. just the simple customer service and that's it. I've even sort of debated finding a different bank to work for that didn't require so much of it's employees. But of course I have to keep in mind that every job has something like this to deal with. Every job has a bottom line, and of course that is what the higher ups look at. Even at Subway we were under pressure to cut losses and waste and up-sell. Other banks will certainly be the same way, if not worse. A friend who used to work at a different large bank told me they had to cold call customers to get them to sign up for stuff! At least we don't have to do that! So it's just something I'm going to have to learn to live with, and hopefully in time I won't feel as pressured anymore.. it will just be second nature and another part of the job. I know it is a good job and the employees are treated well. Most of them have been there for about 25 years.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
2 Feb 12
[i]So, have you been audited yet? How was it? If not yet, goodluck![/i] I have a lot of friends who worked in the banking industry. 'Worked' (past tense), because most of them have left already and have gone to other industries. They all have the same stories as you. That the expectations from them can sometimes be a bit too much. Specially if they don't meet their targets, just like you said (wrote). Anyway, I'm glad that you are still liking it (for some reason, I suddenly miss those Subway discussions that you used to raise). And maybe in a few years, when you've already established yourself in that bank, in that industry, and you decide to do something else, then you've already got a good jump off point. Just like my friends.
• United States
2 Feb 12
No audit yet.. wishing they would get it over and done with! Hard to say what my future holds. I don't always like the pressure, but like I said it wouldn't be much different anywhere else. Employees are under pressure everywhere you go, and at least I get paid well and have great benefits for my trouble! Sorry you're missing my Subway discussions. Haven't had much to discuss with the new job, until recently. Some things happened yesterday which I just may go start a discussion about!
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
27 Jan 12
i actually like my job. i work for a Christian company were we make radios and ship them all around the world and also set up Christian radio stations. i like the people i work with and i only work 3 amornings a week which is perfect.
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@GardenGerty (160996)
• United States
27 Jan 12
Cher, that sounds like a wonderful job. I am glad you can enjoy it.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
29 Jan 12
I wish my job was like that! I've been wanting to shift careers so I could do something meaningful, but I haven't been lucky. There was a chance 4 years ago to do something worthwhile but the money was just not there. And I kind of needed the money to raise my family back then.
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
hahahaha... you got me there! Yeah i hate my job right now, mainly because of my upper bosses! But will stay here for the salary though, i need the money until i find a job that doesnt suck anymore lol... Goodluck to us!
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
29 Jan 12
I'm like that too hoodedboi! If there is something that I hate with my job, I will suck it up, and appear to be content for everyone to see. That's while I look for a better one. Thanks for the response.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
27 Jan 12
Dear friend, I would answer you in one way rather than another, if only I had the good fortune to have a job. Which, however, I still have not the age of 37! If one day I found a job, I'll keep in mind this question, and with all my sincerity, I will be glad to be able to answer you in some way.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
30 Jan 12
Hello alberello. You do really put it in perspective. Although I complain about my current job, I would certainly complain a lot more if I don't have one. Thanks.
• United States
31 Jan 12
I just started back up with a company I used to work for a few years ago. The novelty hasn't worn off yet, but of course I have days that I don't want to be there. I kind of (re)accepted the job because it's nationwide and a forbes and fortune 500 top 100 companies to work for. I had previously left them on a good note and since I just moved to a new city I needed work desperately and knew they would hire me back. Though I love the company culture, my job, my coworkers and the company president I'm only working part time and am ready to move on. I actually applied and interviewed for two other jobs last week that I'm sure I will get hired for, but I know I will hate. The money is going to be great with either one and the benefits are even better than the benefits with my current company (which are awesome). I love my current job, but I guess hating your job is a fact of life if you want to pay the bills comfortably.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
Then I guess we are going through almost the same thing. As I also left this company on a good note, not expecting to be back. But they called, and there were other benefits to consider that prompted me come back. Anyway, if you get hired by another company, I hope it wouldn't be as bad as you expect. Goodluck!
@rooftop (110)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 12
As for me I can't say if I hate my job or not. I work in a small company. I am the only staff. I have worked here for ll long years. Actually it is the environment that I hated and it is getting worse now... I tried to keep the office tidy but my bosses are such messy people. I wonder if they are doing it on purpose .. know what I mean? Signs of trying to make me go away. If you don't like your job and you have alternatives/offers ..Go by all means. It's STRESS doing the thing you dislike.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
1 Feb 12
You're absolutely right rooftop! It's the STRESS that I am very much disliking. I can handle the responsibilities, and even the load. It's just the added stress that the people around create that I am hating. I'm hoping for that alternative, so I can go. Thanks and welcome to myLot!
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
31 Jan 12
Well, in a lot of ways there are many days where I know I have said I HATE my job. Sometimes I wish we could be more in control of what a driver does, or does not do, and keep more customers Happy. I also wish there was more of a challenge many times and more get along instead of feeling pressured. Overall there are days I would LOVE to walk out and never come back, but then I would be without a job, and this one is better than a lot of jobs out there pay wise, and medically speaking. So for now I know there will be the Good and Bad but until either my Business pays off like a job would with being able to afford Medical or something comparible comes along I will continue where I am at.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
Hey! Didn't you just get your raise? Even though you had to work at it, you did get it finally. So, I would understand if you're not hating your job right now! Thanks and be well!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Feb 12
I pretty much felt distressed going to work every day of my working life. I think it's one of the reasons I'm so happy now that I'm not working. I do volunteer work and I absolutely love it so it's not a pain for me when I go to "work". It's hard sometimes, yes, but I still enjoy it.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
6 Feb 12
I am so ready to start 'not working'! Unfortunately, last time I checked, I still have 24 years to go until retirement. I want to do something not stressful. Or even if it's stressful, something that I know is helping other people. Just like volunteer work. Sadly, it's still far away for me. Thanks for responding though!
@GreenMoo (11833)
28 Jan 12
I didn't actually realise how much I disliked my job until I left. Now I don't work for an employer, and I have to say that it suits me far better. On the downside, I'm broke! My problem with paid work now would be my insistence on doing something which matched my values. Unfortunately, most jobs would fail at the first hurdle.
@GreenMoo (11833)
2 Feb 12
Actually, being broke doesn't bother me nearly as much as you'd expect. When you have a regular income so much of it is frittered away on things which don't matter, but when you make a concious decision to have time rather than material stuff those things become less important. But I do have major advantages over many people in that my farm is paid for outright and I have no utility bills to pay. The extra time I have allows me to grow much of our own food, and my outgoings are pretty low. The most expensive things I keep are my truck and my dogs.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
2 Feb 12
That's just it! That's just such a big downside, to be broke. So, no matter how I hate what I have right now, it keeps me in perspective because I got bills to pay. Thanks GreenMoo.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
1 Feb 12
My current job is being a stay-at-home mother and I've been doing that for the last five years and there has never been a point that I've hated staying at home with my children. I even loved the job that I worked at when I was pregnant with my son. The only reason that I left that job was because of the fact that I couldn't afford to pay childcare for two children. The job prior to that, I did come to hate because I didn't like the fact that my co-workers didn't do their jobs right.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
If I didn't have to work, I would also love to just stay home with the kids. Or drive them and pick them up from school. And bring them around to their after school activities. I'm sure there will also be stress in there, but it would also be more rewarding. Thanks.
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
i only like my job coz of the salary im getting from it, my salary is twice as what regular office employee have in our country so even though i dont like it thn i have no choice but to embrace it. i tend to like it at the start as what i normally do but as years passed i come to think of being tired working from the same work again and again. i have the same feeling even if ihave regular job as it really happened so i just think of the salary and how it help me and my baby.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
I do appreciate the salary that I get from my job too! They gave me quite a hefty increase when I moved from my old job. But I guess the longer you stay in one company, the more you equate that difference in salary with the stress you're getting. Thanks.
@much2say (56142)
• Los Angeles, California
28 Jan 12
Oh no! Well, best of luck to you with that job interview!! My hubby could tell you a similar story. Last year when the new year started (almost exactly a year ago), he landed a great job opportunity with a local company. A higher position, great salary, nice people, fantastic perks . . . who could ask for more. But as the weeks and months went on, like you said, the "honeymoon stage" started to wear off. He worked longer hours than he should have, the team wasn't as supportive as a team should be, there was a lot of ridiculing going around, work politics started showing itself, etc etc. The dream job started becoming a never ending nightmare - oh my poor hubby was like a zombie - so stressful for him. It's a longer story than that, but the bad stuff kept being egged on - he couldn't stand it any more. So end of October, he just HAD to leave the place - and good riddens - he started becoming more relaxed and got better sleep . . . he was his ol' self again (thank goodness). Luckily his old company needed his help (another long story), so he was able to jump right back into work. Even though it wasn't the best company to work for, he was able to make a deal with the owner to have get freelance pay (considerably more than what he made when he was actually working there a few years ago). We needed the money, so this would be a good transitional gig - at least until he was able to find a new, stable job. And voila . . . a start up company found him via LinkedIn . . . and that's where he went THIS new year!! It's been considerably less stressful for him (a bit of a different industry), in a different environment - and he's liking it much more than from where he came from in the past few years. He his still freelancing for that transitional "old" job too - so it's all good for now. So anyway (to end my blabbering here) - from a terrible, difficult, stressful year ... he's now in a extremely likeable situation (well, it's the honeymoon stage still) - so we'll se how it goes!!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
31 Jan 12
Actually, one of the reasons I'm looking for something else also, is that I wanted to get out of this industry that I am in. It is stressful, and I don't really see any future fot it. I wanted to get into an industry that meant something. Like helping people, or saving lives. And then the stress of this current job, so that's the reason I applied. I just did the intervew less than 2 hours ago. I can't say that the would-be salary is promising, but the actual job is! Thanks!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
1 Feb 12
I am hoping that I'll get stressed out with this job again, so I could say yes.
@much2say (56142)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Feb 12
Ah, hope the interview went well! My hubby switched industries about 7 years ago. It was a major switch - from creative to technical. He wanted to go for something more "stable" . . . something with a "definite" future as opposed to an unpredictable one (especially now since we have kids!). So now here he is, almost finding his niche in "this" industry - it's been a long road, but well worth the trip. Sometimes you just gotta jump in and do what your gut tells you to do. Good luck whatever you decide!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
28 Jan 12
I want to try out strip teasing, sweetie. Care to come and see if you might find it interesting, without hating it? I think we get free ice with the job or something.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
30 Jan 12
Oh! I definitely would like that! Of course, you would have to do the strip teasing, as I highly doubt anybody would find 'my' strip teasing, interesting. Funny maybe, but definitely not interesting!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
2 Feb 12
pink tutu and g-string For me?! Not unless you want people laughing and rolling on the floor!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
31 Jan 12
And if i get you a pink tutu and g-string, sweetie?
@leighz (456)
29 Jan 12
Good thing you posted this. I HATE MY JOB! that's why i filed for resignation, next week will be my last at long last yeheyyyy. I'll be venturing into a small business where I'm most passionate about.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
Good for you! Sometimes, when the stress really gets to you, you'd be better off quitting. And doing something else that you're passionate about. Goodluck!
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
28 Jan 12
I been at my job for 6 years, there's some things i don't like about my job too. I stick with it though because its hard to find a good job now a days. I just don't like lazy people and that's what there is at my job. I do most of the work every day and everyone else slacks off and just talks and gets away with things and i'm always left by myself taking care of patients. I don't mind working but it gets annoying too. I wouldn't trade my job for anything though i love my patients I see daily and love the stuff I do, we just need new people that actually work and not slack off.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
We actually laid off one guy from the floor this week. His fault? Just like you mentioned, he was fond of slacking off. He got away with it for over a year, and was told several times, until finally he was let go. Sometimes a message like this goes a long way in letting people know that slacking off is not the norm. Thanks for the input.
@GemmaR (8517)
28 Jan 12
I have hated most jobs that I have ever had during the course of my life, but I have to admit that I have really grown to like the work that I'm doing at the moment. I write articles, and normally manage to write between 10 and 12 each day depending on what else I have to do. I like the fact that I can plan my own working hours without having to worry about meeting other people's deadlines or anything like that. I think that as long as you have the money that you need to be able to survive, not all that much else matters.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
2 Feb 12
Unfortunately, I don't think I'm at that stage yet. To just be content on surviving. My kids are still young, so there is still the need to provide for them, education, food as they are still growing, etc. But if I could get past this stage, and just worry about myself, then maybe I could let go of the stressful job. Thanks.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 Jan 12
There are times when I have and I do. I think alot of it is because I have been there so long and I feel like it takes away from the things that I love to do. I work so much. I am on the 7 days a week right now and it is grueling...these are the days when I consider other alternatives. When I start to feel burned out, that is when I try something different or do something that is not "planned." The days I do have off are not allowed to be scheduled at all. If anything is done on those days, it is on a whim or just something I decide to do. That helps...a day or two that I am not obligated to be somewhere or do something.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
I feel like it takes away from the things that I love to do Sometimes I feel like by hating the everyday things, I miss out on the positive things about the job. It takes away my time to focus on the good things. Or maybe it's just the stress. Thansk Jen.
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
29 Jan 12
I am not working right now, but I have worked job where I felt just like you are feeling now. Sometimes the people you work with can help you love your job or really hate it. Then there are times when management changes, etc. More reasons to hate the job. But, I did have a few jobs that I absolutely loved when I was younger. I think jobs are much more stressful these days which contributes to the hate feelings.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Feb 12
It has become stressful as of late, here where I work at. Although I still have a lot of freedom, there are just added pressures that I can't help come up. And yes, these are the ones that contribute most to the 'hate' feelings. Anyway, 26 years or so more to go before I can finally get rid of this 'working for a living' need.
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
As of these moment, I'm currently unemployed so it means I don't have a job. But then it had already came into my mind that once I hated my job because I am so pressured with the needed quotas. But I come to think of it that we should really love our job. Not every one in this world has a job.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
2 Feb 12
I know that not everyone has a job. And I also know that some could just be square pegs on round holes, thus all the stress, and the need to hate the job. But sometimes, I think there needs to be a 'hate' so that people could move into the 'round' hole, and the job left could be opened up for those that don't have jobs. Thanks!
• United States
28 Jan 12
I really hate my job because it is boring the people are no good and the place kind of smells like old people. :)
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
2 Feb 12
Hello ChinnaE1. I guess you're in the wrong calling, if you've found yourself in a boring place full of old people, and you hating it. Thanks for the response. And welcome to myLot!