Am i not beautiful?

Philippines
January 28, 2012 5:45am CST
People say that beauty comes from the outside, but how can i believe that when whenever an attractive girl is seen with pretty features, she endlessly praised and called beautiful but whenever people see me, they think that i'm ugly.
13 responses
@shibham (16977)
• India
29 Jan 12
Be beautiful from your mind and heart and your face is enough to reflect it. Being beautiful by complexion and having a dirty mind is not praiseworthy. take care.
@shibham (16977)
• India
29 Jan 12
Nope. i did not tell that. sorry.... i was talking that if your mind and heart is beautiful, then your face is the best reflector of it and it will hide your skin beauty. Anyway, you are beautiful.
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
OH! so i guess you are trying to say that i am ugly :( anyway thanks for your concern
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
Don't make it a big deal if other people praises other beautiful people and not you. I think that, being beautiful is all in the mind, If you think that you are beautiful inside then it will show outside. As for me, i don't care about beauty. As long as i have a wonderful and peaceful mind and beautiful attitude towards other people. And don't think that you're ugly! maybe you're bothered or hurt sometimes, but don't let this people turn you down.
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
agree
@eunife (165)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
every girl has her own unique beauty inside and out. your physical appearance or features is not the lone criteria for being beautiful. It includes your mind, your heart and your character attitude. you may have the pretty features physically but can you hold yourself upright and with dignity when you deal with other people? i don't think there is this girl we can call "ugly" really. maybe to some strangers you are ugly, but to your friends and family you are the most beautiful and wonderful girl because they know you inside and out.
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
i am beautiful no matter what they said.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
There is a saying "beauty is in the eye of a beholder." Don't worry about what other says the most important is you carry yourself in every situations. Beauty starts from within. Your outlook in life and how you live as a good citizen. Just do good to others and love your brother and sisters as Christ love us. All I can say is be happy..
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
I am contented with my self but sometimes i can't help it. I get hurt with those lame words that they used to.
• China
29 Jan 12
To you and your true friends , your inner beauty is the most important. To those you came across , you may ignore their comments, because they can't make a right comment on you without sincere communication. so, just be happy and confident!
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
Yeah! thanks. I am beautiful in a way i used to be.
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 12
Beauty is not only from appearance, the real beauty is what you have inside. Beauriful face is not last, people always like beautiful and handsome faces, but by time people with inner beauty are the best in public :) You are amazing just the way you are :)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
well done said. Yeah! i am beautiful inner and outside.
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
I feel that to be beautiful is inside as well as outside thing not just"that girl is beautiful because she has pretty face"'because those things are superficial.These things,although beneficial should not define beauty,as beauty is uniqueness and randomness.Beauty,in my opinion,is not in the eye of a beholder but is a state of mind,in which with confidence and knowledge we can all obtain.Being that no one is perfect on this Earth,no one has the right to define who is beautiful or not,because as we all have our positives,as we all have our faults as well external image...Everybody is beautiful.So Just don't mind those people telling you are ugly...cheer!!!
• Kuwait
29 Jan 12
Hahaha, outside beauty is for real. I think inside beauty is a defense mechanism used by ugly people. But look on the brighter side, beauty doesnt last long. It wont matter if people see you as ugly, what matters is your bf's comment. hahaha, if for him you're beautiful, then there's no problem. haha p.s. sometimes you must accept the harsh reality of life, and then you will see a better perspective. and you'll know how to deal with it ; )
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
hey there nylanohj7, A lot of people are blinded by the things they see for the first time, but in reality once a person finds out that beauty is external and the person has a rotten attitude then they stay away after a while, if you are kind stay that way no need to change for others and you are not ugly, okay take care.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
4 Feb 12
nylanohj, I can not believe that anyone have called you ugly. I have always heard that beautiful comes from within....not outside...You should know that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...Don't don't let people dictate who you are...Yoo have to believe in your self and be your own self.. If this is your picture you are a beautiful looking person. How can you think anything differently...
@shimi18 (98)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
Let us not deny that we also look in physical appearance but for me, what matters is the character, I don't care no matter how handsome or beautiful a person is, if he or she has no heart. Ignore those people who sees you as ugly, you are beautiful in your ways. and who are they to see you as such anyway?
@inemboy (23)
• Kuwait
29 Jan 12
Sweetie, who said you're not beautiful? Whoever said doesn't know beauty. Don't mind them. As a matter of fact, you're the most beautiful on mylot i've seen so far. *winks*
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Feb 12
Beauty actually comes from within, it shows on the outside what you feel on the inside. Of course everyone cannot be born beautiful, it happens to a select few that most of us are totally physical beautiful. The most important thing is we work on our inner beauty more than our outer and in the end we will be both beautiful inside and out.