He cheated.

Hi! Its normal to feel hatred at first but I think its best that you let go of the bad feelings. It will only affect your outlook in life and relationship. Don't nourish the hatred you have it will become a grudge and may destroy you. Learn from that experience and be a better person instead. Remember, the best vengeance for your enemy is an act of kindness.:))

Once done, cannot be undone. If he had done it once, he can do it again and again and again. You must know if he had only done it once. if only once, then its up to you to forgive him or move on. But if he had done it more than once, then hasta la vista baby. Goodbye with him. That's enough stupidity, move on and find someone else. Staying with him would hurt you, especially if he doesnt love you anymore. You better think through things. Damn, it is so difficult when it comes to love. hehe.

i am so sorry to hear this. it breaks my heart hearing ssuch painful stories, but this is the reality of life... this was once all new to me... it wasn't even the least bit part of what i was thinking until it happened to me as well and i can say i do know how hard it is to feel that you have been made a fool... but do not worry it will pass. you will feel whole again. whether you decide to take him back or not... just make sure you are happy. even if you are hurt, it doesn't mean you are broken.

If you are in a relationship that is causing you pain then it is best to leave the relationship. This is because you will be wasting your time in a bad relationship. I know because I once loved a man very much but it was a very bad and painful relationship. I thought I could change him and mold him into a better someone. However I was never able to do that. I spent extremely painful years with him and it also caused my 2 boys pain. Now I'm alone without anyone romantic. But it's better to be alone then to be in a painful relationship.

If you have to get your own value out of what others bring or give you it's very bad. It's you who has to give value to yourself. Only if you find yourself special other people will see that too. Don't waste good energy on someone who doesn't deserve it. You can be angry on yourself because you gave your trust and you let someone take advantage of you. This won't happen to you again. Was your love really blind?

It's hard, i know because my ex cheated on my before. I'm so glad that he did it when we are still just boyfriend and girlfriend. I got rid of him for good and I found another guy who is waaaaay better than him! Think of it as a blessing in disguise. Because now you know he is not the right guy for you. I wish you happiness.

I read your comments with other people and it seems that you already know the answer. You say he makes you very happy and no one has treated you the way he does. Did he give a reason why he did it? Do you think you can work through it and be able to trust him again. These are things you have to ask yourself if you want to stay with him and it seems you do. It takes a strong woman to stay with someone who cheated.

So sorry he cheated on you what a pig. There's other guys out there that will treat you better than he ever did. Men our pigs sometimes. Don't be sad move on with life theres better and great things out there for you now it's your time to shine and explore the world!

I am so sorry to hear that you have had your heart broken. Try not to let it get you down. He is obviously not worth your time and tears. Pick up the pieces of your broken heart and be happy that you found out about it. Get out of the relationship and don't look back. I feel that once a cheat always a cheat and even if he did not ever cheat again could you really get over it and not question his fidelity through out the relationship? I would think that having the past hang over your head would weigh you down and you would not be able to have a successful relationship. Get on with your life. You are worth way more than what he has to offer you.

I am so very sorry that you are going through this. It really isn't fair. If this guy loved you as he says that he does, he would NEVER have cheated on you. I have been in this situation before, it was devistating. I thought that I would never be able to move on. I was wrong. He wasn't the man for me, just like this guy isn't the one for you. I eventually met my husband and he showed me what REAL love is. I am glad that my other realtionship ended because if it hadn't I would never have met my husband. I know that it might not seem like it right now, but this is for the best. Better to find out what he is really like NOW, as opposed to finding out later down the road. You are a strong individual and you do NOT need a man to make you special. Do not listen to sweet I'm sorries, I won't do it again, because from one to another, he is lying. If he truly loved you, he would NEVER cheat. NEVER. My husband and I have been together for 14 years and he would NEVER consider cheating on me. Be strong and know that the right guy for you is out there, you just have to hold out for him. Good luck and happy mylotting.

hey there mzbaybe, there must be something wrong and that is his head, i think there is no explanation for cheating on someone you love, and if he wanted to end it why not just end it right at-least it wouldn't be messy and if he thought he was getting away with it then his an a** hole so don't fret life is too short to cry over spilled sewage.

If someone very special to us cheated on us, it will cause to much pain to us because we don't want our partner to have another person that they will love as they love us before. I really really hate a guy who cheat because i experience to be cheat before and it really hurt. All my expectations ends up on nothing. I forgive him on the first time he did cheating and he do it again for the time. Another woman again and i think its enough i end up our relationship and thanks to him i found the right guy when we end up our relationship.

This could go one of two ways. If you forgive him it can be a major growth in your relationship and make what u have stronger after all the trust is regained. I feel like it depends on the circumstances...when did he cheat? Y did he cheat? What exactly did they do? Did he tell you or did you find out through someone else or on your own? If he is really really regretting it and you move slowly you could forgive him. I personally do not think that I would ever forgive the love of my life for doing something like that but then again its never happened to me. Just be careful, many people say once a cheater always a cheater.

Hello my dear mzbaybe, I had been throughout the same. He told me that he had slept with another girl. I was shocked. I had never thought that he could do such a thing. I was thinking that he is different. He told me, while we were outside in a restorant, because he was afraid that I would start shouting and he know that I will never cry and shout infront of other people. When he told me, at first I thought - Oh, it is not such a big deal. But then my heart started bleeding. It hurts so much. I forgived him. BUt I do not trust him as I use to before. And I do not know if I love him on the same way. What you have to do is to deside if you could forgive. And even if you forgive him, could you look at his eyes without thinking that he cheat on you. If you cant, find yourself a better man.

Please don't be sad.Everything will be OK.Life is happiness.You should relax youself.You can shopping or play games.Best wishes to you.