I feel special
By Kotarei
@Kotarei (141)
United States
January 29, 2012 4:38am CST
So today I got to spend time out with my fiance. We went to the library park and I chased the ducks for a little bit. Afterwards i dragged him back to my apartment so we could watch how i met your mother. When we finished up a couple episodes we than proceeded to the mall. While we were getting lunch at hot dog on a stick he told me how he really loved having me around and how much he appriciated me. i was taken aback by it slightly. He told me if it wasnt for me he'd probly be some dead beat no lifer because he feels he has no motivation. He told me i give him that motivation and make him wanna be the best person he can be for me and himself. While i think he shouldnt have to rely on having somewhere around in his life to motivate him to do what needs to get done in life, i was very happy to hear that i made him a better person in his eyes.
It really made me smile when he told me that.
5 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Jan 12
That sounds like a great day, except for chasing the ducks!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Jan 12
still.. it sounds like a great day and I can understand very well why you feel special. Hope you keep that feeling!
ps think the ducks will forgive you
@rubbershot (173)
• Kenya
29 Jan 12
I think your fiance trully loves you. When a guy is in love, everything he does is inspired by the love in his life, you give him strength to outdo himself. Give him your support and watch him climb new heights.
@tarachand (3895)
• India
24 Mar 12
I am happy for you. And if your fiance feels that you are a motivator, then that's really good! Humans sometimes do need reasons for doing something and maybe surpassing goals - if your being something special to him is the reason, then so be it! It is for the good for both of you!
All the best in life!
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Congratulation to you because you have a happy love life. Not all men can say that to there partner to you are very lucky to have him because he is not just showy person. He is also sweet. When someone you love make you feel so special can also make you feel glad to your self because you have the the guy that can make you the most happiest person. You should also take good care of him also.
@Kotarei (141)
• United States
6 Mar 12
Thank you ^-^ and yea I believe its hard to get ahold of well maybe not get ahold of but for alot of girls to find guys like these. I feel so appriciated, and i like that we can talk about so much and talk about possible random future plans together. When we had still only been friends he helped me so much, i had the worst social anxiety and i kno there are some guys who give up with trying to deal with someone like that, but he worked with me everyday starting with phone conversations, than skype, than going out than gradually with his friends. Sometimes i still get randomly socially awkward but he still helps me along the way. And i'm just really happy i was able to make him feel like a better person the way hes helped me.
